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hedda_foil

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40. When my in-laws died, I was the only one with them. The family members were in the hall together.

Sat Oct 3, 2020, 05:04 PM

Oct 2020

And no, that doesn't make me a good daughter-in-law. My mil passed away two weeks before the wedding and we married 6 months after meeting each other. I had met her once. I was on the rebound. He was at National Guard summer camp and didn't get back in time. The numerous relatives spent the time talking about whether they should call the doctor or not.

Father in law died a year later. This time, my ex was in the huddle discussing whether they should call the doctor or not.

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There, in a hospital room, the facade crumbles and the ugly truth is bared. [View all] Croney Oct 2020 OP

Being in medicine I've seen a lot of old butts Olafjoy Oct 2020 #1

Wouldn't bother me if they accidentally tripped and pulled the plug Blue Owl Oct 2020 #2

Now how on earth was that tie supposed to cover his girth? babylonsister Oct 2020 #3

Optical illusion? (n/t) Moostache Oct 2020 #12

yup. i am a painter. you are correct. ihas2stinkyfeet Oct 2020 #31

Hiding the gut is my wife's theory for his forward leaning stance. chriscan64 Oct 2020 #23

your wife is correct. ihas2stinkyfeet Oct 2020 #32

I feel sorry for the healthcare workers exposed to danger by an arrogant narcist uppityperson Oct 2020 #4

I hope those medical staff don't have to see the trumpet mushroom. Doodley Oct 2020 #5

Oh, let them have a peek. They probably need a little humor right now. Grokenstein Oct 2020 #8

My sympathies to whoever has to do his catheter dflprincess Oct 2020 #15

I would be happier if he had no health care or insur... BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #6

Awesome visual VicNEO Oct 2020 #7

+1000 smirkymonkey Oct 2020 #9

Some of that is probably exactly how it is. Mira Oct 2020 #10

He needs medical care, we need justice. madamesilverspurs Oct 2020 #16

Excellent visuals of the russian Cha Oct 2020 #11

The Emperor's New Hospital Gown. betsuni Oct 2020 #13

"who thought he was more than he was" C Moon Oct 2020 #14

Wasting away again in Walter-Reedoville DFW Oct 2020 #17

China's fault. Gotta go with Trumpian lyrics. JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2020 #19

I just updated the lyrics I wrote a year and a half ago: DFW Oct 2020 #20

I'm trying to imagine the level of security around that room to insure no photos. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2020 #18

We think alike malaise Oct 2020 #21

It's a special "Presidential Suite" that Walter Reed has BumRushDaShow Oct 2020 #22

yeah, regular doctors and nurses won't be allowed anywhere near him, secrets will be kept Baclava Oct 2020 #25

Damn, I wish I could get that kind of care Piasladic Oct 2020 #26

It's not that he can't be bothered. Aristus Oct 2020 #29

You're right Piasladic Oct 2020 #30

Why did you assume "he?" Maru Kitteh Oct 2020 #41

Don't read too much into it. Aristus Oct 2020 #42

Perhaps you should though. Maru Kitteh Oct 2020 #43

I keep thinking about Melania.... Sogo Oct 2020 #36

She wants no part of being around the sick superspreader, besides, she has staff to infect at the WH Baclava Oct 2020 #39

Add all the PPE to those photos and it will look like Martians invaded a Marriott. Croney Oct 2020 #27

Wow! That looks larger than my house! Retrograde Oct 2020 #35

I think I saw somewhere that it was 4000 sqft of space BumRushDaShow Oct 2020 #38

He just ran a campaign commercial on my TV bragging about how he beat the corona virus. GoCubsGo Oct 2020 #24

Brilliant post! llmart Oct 2020 #28

"Good genes," he said. This affects "virtually nobody." Just the elderly and people with ecstatic Oct 2020 #33

as a former hospice volunteer i can say you are correct. ihas2stinkyfeet Oct 2020 #34

When my in-laws died, I was the only one with them. The family members were in the hall together. hedda_foil Oct 2020 #40

How long before a pic leaks out? Wanderlust988 Oct 2020 #37