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Fla Dem

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124. I am so, so sorry. I will hug my girl a little closer tonight in Sugarbear's memory.

Tue Oct 6, 2020, 08:26 PM

Oct 2020

My girl, 14 years old has been sick for past 2 weeks. Took her to the vet, but she couldn’t find anything wrong. She had been vomiting, lethargic and loose bowels. Vet gave her an antibiotic shot in case she picked up a virus, I don’t know from where as she’s an inside cat. Today was the first day all systems were pretty normal, so I hope she’s good going forward.

But just the thought that she was sick and I didn’t know why and she seemed to be getting weaker every day was breaking my heart. I couldn’t imagine her not being here.

So while I still have my girl with me, I can only imagine how difficult it is for you to say good bye to your boy. He was a beautiful boy. You had a wonderful 19 years with him and he had a wonderful 19 years with you. This is what you’ll hold in your heart.💕

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My heart is only half beating [View all] samplegirl Oct 2020 OP

Very few losses are as painful as this renate Oct 2020 #1

You have my deepest sympathy, samplegirl Ohiogal Oct 2020 #2

I'm sorry for your loss. 58Sunliner Oct 2020 #3

I'm so sorry for your loss of Sugarbear. May the good livetohike Oct 2020 #4

So sorry, Samplegirl Bayard Oct 2020 #5

Oh my ... Delphinus Oct 2020 #6

He's forever in your heart, samplegirl...... Heartstrings Oct 2020 #7

Sorry to hear this sad news Blue Owl Oct 2020 #8

So sorry samplegirl. Hugs. redstatebluegirl Oct 2020 #9

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my little Patsy when I was 14. Glorfindel Oct 2020 #10

I miss my dog Susie who died 40 years ago... Blue_playwright Oct 2020 #47

I'm so sorry. fleur-de-lisa Oct 2020 #11

I'm so sorry for your loss pruple Oct 2020 #12

so very sorry, samplegirl bigtree Oct 2020 #13

I see him everywhere I look samplegirl Oct 2020 #14

So very sorry, samplegirl mcar Oct 2020 #15

Too sad malaise Oct 2020 #16

Lady Bast, please take beloved Sugarbear gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace and niyad Oct 2020 #17

That's hard - I'm sorry lame54 Oct 2020 #132

A sad day. JohnnyRingo Oct 2020 #18

Oh, oh. I'm so sorry, SG. gristy Oct 2020 #19

They sneak into our hearts and take over. And leave such a void when they slip away ... marble falls Oct 2020 #20

I am so very sorry for your loss. StarryNite Oct 2020 #21

I'm so sorry. Snackshack Oct 2020 #22

So sorry for your loss. He was beautiful... cayugafalls Oct 2020 #23

Sorry for your loss. My wife and I have had cats in our family for decades. patphil Oct 2020 #24

What a beautiful baby. ♥️ DangerousRhythm Oct 2020 #25

Losing a pet is heartbreaking. Codeine Oct 2020 #26

Sugarbear. 🕯️ I know that pain. I am so so sorry irisblue Oct 2020 #27

I'm so very sorry, samplegirl. What a beautiful boy. catbyte Oct 2020 #28

I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2020 #29

I'm so sorry for your loss. MelissaB Oct 2020 #30

I recently lost my Chico. pwb Oct 2020 #31

Chico wasnt a white poodle who attacked & bit every girl who came near him, yet was an angel to men? Celerity Oct 2020 #41

((((Hugs)))) cry baby Oct 2020 #32

Oh no. So sorry for the loss of your big, beautiful Sugarbear. Bless you for japple Oct 2020 #33

Oh, sweet boy. Sending love. ❤️ nolabear Oct 2020 #34

so sorry to hear this! huge huggies and condolences Celerity Oct 2020 #35

Sending you love ❤️ and Godspeed to Sugarbear as he crosses the rainbow bridge. MLAA Oct 2020 #36

I'm so sorry. What a sweet kitty. nt spooky3 Oct 2020 #37

So sorry - they are with us for too short a time. GoneOffShore Oct 2020 #38

You will see sugarbear again. My thoughts go out to you! He looked wonderful!!! onecent Oct 2020 #39

Condolences on the loss of your beloved kitty. gademocrat7 Oct 2020 #40

Awwwww...sweet kitty. calimary Oct 2020 #42

He has crossed the Rainbow Bridge now, and is one with Spirit of Cat. PatrickforO Oct 2020 #43

I'm so sorry. AirmensMom Oct 2020 #44

So sorry. cate94 Oct 2020 #45

I'm so sorry for your loss. Texin Oct 2020 #46

Losing a beloved pet is so hard, I think especially because the relationship is so personal. ego_nation Oct 2020 #48

samplegirl.... Upthevibe Oct 2020 #49

You gave him a good life Leith Oct 2020 #50

I am sorry about your sweet boy. BusyBeingBest Oct 2020 #51

Holding you cilla4progress Oct 2020 #52

I'm so sorry MissB Oct 2020 #53

I am so sorry, samplegirl. crickets Oct 2020 #54

I am so sorry. I also lost a sweet Sugar Bear. sinkingfeeling Oct 2020 #55

So sorry for you marlakay Oct 2020 #56

so sorry, samplegirl Skittles Oct 2020 #57

I can't do anymore pain this year samplegirl Oct 2020 #58

... N_E_1 for Tennis Oct 2020 #59

:-( moreland01 Oct 2020 #60

Sorry for your loss jcgoldie Oct 2020 #61

I never thought I could get so attached to an animal until Jeanie. alfredo Oct 2020 #62

I'm so sorry 19! RIP LittleGirl Oct 2020 #63

I'm so sorry! :( Solly Mack Oct 2020 #64

Condolences EndlessWire Oct 2020 #65

🕯 Duppers Oct 2020 #66

One of our vets once said to me that we take our pets... 3catwoman3 Oct 2020 #67

I'm so sorry. I don't think anything hurts worse. He was a beautiful guy. Vinca Oct 2020 #68

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved boy. phylny Oct 2020 #69

That's A Shame, Ma'am The Magistrate Oct 2020 #70

Deepest sympathy. He's a lucky boy to have lived so long with you Cousin Dupree Oct 2020 #71

Oh no leighbythesea2 Oct 2020 #72

Deep condolences Stinky The Clown Oct 2020 #73

I'm so, so sorry. shrike3 Oct 2020 #74

I am very sorry for your loss. Moostache Oct 2020 #75

So sorry💕 Meowmee Oct 2020 #76

I'm so sorry. barbtries Oct 2020 #77

What a gorgeous darling. I am so sorry. tblue37 Oct 2020 #78

Oh, honey.... I'm so sorry. Nevilledog Oct 2020 #79

Sugarbear JGug1 Oct 2020 #80

Beautiful kitty. Thank you for giving him a good life AllyCat Oct 2020 #81

I am so sorry. I know you pain and it's horrible. Maraya1969 Oct 2020 #82

So sorry for your loss. TwilightZone Oct 2020 #83

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 2020 #84

It hurts so much. ChazInAz Oct 2020 #85

I'm so sorry! redwitch Oct 2020 #86

They keep coming into our lives matt819 Oct 2020 #87

Sweet boy shanti Oct 2020 #88

My condolences. It's really hard to lose your best buddy. n/t Liberal In Texas Oct 2020 #89

What a beautiful boy, I'm so sorry for your loss. wendyb-NC Oct 2020 #90

OH, NO!!! Terrible news! Your comment reminded me of my late Jiffy. No matter where he was, he'd Karadeniz Oct 2020 #91

I am so sorry, samplegirl. mnhtnbb Oct 2020 #92

I am so sorry. Sugarbear was a beautiful cat. CottonBear Oct 2020 #93

I know well how heartbreaking this is. MoonRiver Oct 2020 #94

I'm sorry, samplegirl. brer cat Oct 2020 #95

i'm so sorry. LuckyCharms Oct 2020 #96

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful companion. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2020 #97

Beautiful boy lillypaddle Oct 2020 #98

Sympathy and virtual hugs on their way to you! pazzyanne Oct 2020 #99

Nineteen, an amazing lifetime. So sorry for your loss. spanone Oct 2020 #100

I'm sorry for your loss. beemer27 Oct 2020 #101

I'm so sorry. Shadowsmith Oct 2020 #102

Oh, so sorry TuxedoKat Oct 2020 #103

I'm so sorry to hear that Sugarbear passed away. Niagara Oct 2020 #104

He's beautiful. nocoincidences Oct 2020 #105

oh I'm so so sorry Chili Oct 2020 #106

Hugs XanaDUer2 Oct 2020 #107

so sorry sample girl, that is sad... peacebuzzard Oct 2020 #108

I'm so sorry snacker Oct 2020 #109

I'm so sorry mzmolly Oct 2020 #110

My little do died 18 weeks ago... BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #111

My heartfelt sympathies. hamsterjill Oct 2020 #112

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy Sugarcoated Oct 2020 #113

That is as rough as it gets. warmfeet Oct 2020 #114

I'm so very sorry for your loss. After 19 years there's an extraordinary bond between a cat NoRoadUntravelled Oct 2020 #115

My heart goes out to you.nt chowder66 Oct 2020 #116

:( So sorry! Gentle hug. electric_blue68 Oct 2020 #117

Sugarbear was beautiful! Losing a beloved family member is oh so hard. I'm very for your loss. Catcar Oct 2020 #118

Oh dear, that is so hard KT2000 Oct 2020 #119

So very sorry blueseas Oct 2020 #120

What a beautiful boy Ruby Zee Oct 2020 #121

I am so very sorry for your loss. 💔 onecaliberal Oct 2020 #122

😢 Demovictory9 Oct 2020 #123

I am so, so sorry. I will hug my girl a little closer tonight in Sugarbear's memory. Fla Dem Oct 2020 #124

When a kitty dies I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2020 #125

Hugs sakabatou Oct 2020 #126

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing our furry children hurts, Pathwalker Oct 2020 #127

So so sorry Olafjoy Oct 2020 #128

What a handsome guy! tosh Oct 2020 #129

so sorry MFM008 Oct 2020 #130

Some people dream of angels...you held one in your arms... Jack-o-Lantern Oct 2020 #131

I'm so sorry! :( JesterCS Oct 2020 #133

My Mallie was nineteen too. I lost her last year and it still hurts Baltimike Oct 2020 #134

pets don't live so long so you can know more pets. soon i will need a new pair.last cat is about the pansypoo53219 Oct 2020 #135

Sorry for your loss of a loving friend. westerebus Oct 2020 #136

So sorry for your loss! SnowCritter Oct 2020 #137

My deepest condolences, samplegirl. My client lost his dog on Saturday... MerryBlooms Oct 2020 #138

I am so sorry. They always own your heart. No matter how long it's been. CousinIT Oct 2020 #139

You gave each other 19 years of caring, kindness and love. luvtheGWN Oct 2020 #140

My heart is with you. Sorry for your loss. Doreen Oct 2020 #141