Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

cally

(21,593 posts)
11. Ask her clearly to not text political information or make comments about politics
Wed Nov 18, 2020, 12:19 AM
Nov 2020

And then walk away if she does or send text back with same message. Years ago, my father and I would get in screaming matches about politics. A counselor worked with me on setting clear boundaries and to never engage. I loved my father and after that we had a good, loving relationship until he died. I would get up from table and go into other room if politics were brought up. Mostly no one argued about them during all those years.

Do not engage or explain why. Once you start trying to explain why you set the boundary, you are ceding the power.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Help! Political Comments...»Reply #11