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In reply to the discussion: I'm struggling. [View all]AirmensMom
(14,637 posts)105. You have had way too much loss.
Loss is always bad. Compounded loss can be debilitating. I'm so sorry.
We build our lives around traditions. Sometimes a few traditions fall by the wayside, but rarely do they ever go away at once like they have done this year. And it hurts.
Yes, we're in this together, which is probably the only thing making it the least bit tolerable. Good for you for doing things that are somewhat normal and for sticking to your routine.
I hope the next months will be better for all of us.
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You are not alone. And the realization that 99% of our sadness is the direct fault of the person
Atticus
Dec 2020
#4
You've eloquently expressed what so many of us have been feeling this year, each one of us has
chia
Dec 2020
#8
Our DIL is recovering from COVID, as did Mr Nay's brother and his wife. They have come out
Nay
Dec 2020
#68
more common than not as depression is prevalent from all directions, luckily recreational
beachbumbob
Dec 2020
#20
sooner or later Tn will as its about revenue to the state coffers, the numbers out of Illinois for
beachbumbob
Dec 2020
#47
I look back to Christmas 2016, right after Trump was elected, and recall having a small glimmer
sop
Dec 2020
#44
I think a lot of us feel discouraged. We are on the home stretch to sanity, though.
PatrickforO
Dec 2020
#82
I was looking for Ode to Joy and that video came up ... it had been years since I had seen it
Botany
Dec 2020
#98
I got the Thursday "ask" (for today) for our Call to Action email. I wrote a "poem"
calimary
Dec 2020
#87
I am so so sorry all this is coming down on you right now...esp all your losses..
samnsara
Dec 2020
#90
It is a rough time. The effects of covid are overwhelming on so many levels.
Vivienne235729
Dec 2020
#138
Tonight in East TN it'll be in the teens feel like 4. I took in a stray dog
SammyWinstonJack
Dec 2020
#149
You're not alone in this. I care about the meaning of Christmas, but not what it has turned into.
sprinkleeninow
Dec 2020
#190