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lettucebe

(2,355 posts)
8. It doesn't sound like they really care about their child's welfare
Sun Jan 3, 2021, 10:50 PM
Jan 2021

so trying to use the child to reach them isn't likely to work. Frankly they are spoiled and selfish, but you can't lead with that either. It's too bad. We could be having a much better time of it in our country if only we didn't have so many self-absorbed people so busy enjoying themselves they don't notice what's happening around them. This is my gut reaction because I'm getting peeved.

A more reasoned reaction might be to ask them to write a letter to their son, to be opened only in the case of their death, which explains why they felt so strongly that they did not need to follow guidelines and were willing to take the risk. Ask them to say goodbye in the letter, as often goodbyes are not possible, and also to help explain their reasoning so he would have that, at the very least, in the case of their early demise. This is simply a way to tell them they are being stupid without actually using the words, and just giving them the idea forces them to at least think about it, even if only for a nanosecond.

It could be they've decided they are more likely to catch it and die, so therefore, why miss out on the fun? Again, selfish and childish but certainly a state-of-mind I could see a person having. Not wanting to miss out is a great motivator.

Does their son go with them or are these couples only trips? If he does go with them, what I said above about not wanting to miss out may very well be the case -- they don't want to risk going nowhere, having no memories and dying anyway. It's a thought (a dark one tho).

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I would say to them exactly what you said to us in your third paragraph. marybourg Jan 2021 #1
I would tell them that they'll be fine until suddenly they're not Blues Heron Jan 2021 #2
Stay the hell home or samplegirl Jan 2021 #3
There is nothing you can say. Grey5 Jan 2021 #4
COVID will do the talking NRaleighLiberal Jan 2021 #5
Ask them to imagine a scale. thucythucy Jan 2021 #6
Tell them to follow the guidelines - Ms. Toad Jan 2021 #7
It doesn't sound like they really care about their child's welfare lettucebe Jan 2021 #8
The letter sounds like something I could ask for without alienating them completely Joe Nation Jan 2021 #13
That is a good idea. I wish there were a way to have such people... OneGrassRoot Jan 2021 #18
Paragraph 4 in post #6 and... 3catwoman3 Jan 2021 #9
Don't stand so close to me struggle4progress Jan 2021 #10
Many people in the US think they are "special" . I think it's similar to those who think they are in JI7 Jan 2021 #11
This is spot on. thucythucy Jan 2021 #17
"Get the fuck outta here, you covidiot" Stinky The Clown Jan 2021 #12
You could try asking them moondust Jan 2021 #14
Cite a little probability and statistics to them. KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2021 #15
Their kid is likely to contract covid and die too if they do Raine Jan 2021 #16
Exceptions Johnny2X2X Jan 2021 #19
There is probably nothing you could say that will change their minds. MineralMan Jan 2021 #20
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