NEED HELP & ADVICE...PLEASE!

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64. I am so sorry.

My only advice is trivial, but it's all I have. If you decide to get a hospital bed, get an electric one. They are expensive, but you will regret getting one of those crank ones.

There are many people who turn their living rooms into hospital rooms. Do not hesitate to do this. It's normal. It's okay.

Don't give up. Try everything, but don't go too far afield. Work with your team. Try to reduce stress. And, take care of yourself, too. She needs you. Look around for a respite team, and take advantage. Get the help you need.

The temporary colostomy can be borne, but it can be frightening. Not to worry. The nurses will teach you both how to care for it. Reassure your wife that it doesn't matter to you. Everything will be okay.

Having someone who loves you and will help you can be a large part of healing. She is lucky to have you. Be low key, don't panic, and stay positive.

I'll be praying for you.