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In reply to the discussion: I am a SWM, 63, and have never understood many older men. [View all]moonscape
(4,673 posts)in love with a Ukranian woman in her 30s, barely older than his daughter, and they spent time together before the pandemic. They talk every day, have a romance going and talking marriage. He travelled to Switz several times during the pandemic (hes dual citizen) on nearly empty planes to see her.
She is a PhD in economics, has 2 contracts which yield her a 250k annual income, and is so drop-dead gorgeous she could model if she wanted. Hes an amazing guy, extremely charismatic and bright, with a business which yields almost no income. He lives with a former girlfriend because he cant afford his own place.
When he pressed her on the age issue and why the attraction, she said I never met anyone like you. Go figure. I chose not to probe about her relationship with her father ...
Sorry for the aside. It has been on my mind a lot. When the pandemic is over enough for her to come back to the US, Im dreading a visit from them because it creeps me out thinking of seeing them together as a couple. I need to get over it and just be happy that hes so happy, but ...