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Demovictory9

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Sat Apr 10, 2021, 01:26 PM Apr 2021

Meet the introverts who are dreading a return to normal [View all]

Meet the introverts who are dreading a return to normal
Roxanne Roberts 15 hrs ago


Everybody can’t wait to return to normal. Except for half the population dreading the return to normal.

During a sad, tragic year, it was introverts who found a silver lining. There was more time alone, more peace and less of the personal and professional pressures they find so draining. The calendar was suddenly, blissfully empty. Life slowed down.


And now we’re returning to the pre-pandemic world, or as close as we can get. Like everyone else, introverts are excited about seeing family and close friends in person, dining in restaurants, traveling and all the other pleasures of a good life. But most are not interested in facing the forced small talk, the big parties, the noisy open offices and all the demands of extroverts who think more is more and introverts should try harder.

“People are saying, ‘I don’t know how I’m going to go back,’ ” says writer and introvert Jenn Granneman.

“It’s like being paroled for a year and then being told, ‘Actually, you’re going back to prison,’ ” says her partner, writer Andre Sólo.


Social scientists correctly predicted that introverts were best suited to weather the stress of the past year. After months of lockdown, the question now is if introverts can teach the rest of us something about moving forward.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/introverts-are-dreading-a-return-to-the-noise-crowds-and-small-talk-of-normal-life/ar-BB1fvovQ

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My son saw this tweet a few days ago. It fits the situation. Arkansas Granny Apr 2021 #1
This is too true. betsuni Apr 2021 #24
This would be me! After a life time of service in nursing, and really enjoying all my very intense PortTack Apr 2021 #2
NAILED IT !! dweller Apr 2021 #3
lol.. you did!!! one year ago! Demovictory9 Apr 2021 #4
You Sure Did ProfessorGAC Apr 2021 #17
Yes, it certainly is true for me csziggy Apr 2021 #5
As always, the complexity of human beings allows for exceptions. Aristus Apr 2021 #6
I agree...although not really an introvert, I am profoundly hard of hearing, so dealing w/ SWBTATTReg Apr 2021 #7
"Oh that magic feeling - Mme. Defarge Apr 2021 #8
To be frank, personally, my life for the last year has been... Hugin Apr 2021 #9
Note: The people I'm referring to screwing up the new normal are... Hugin Apr 2021 #11
Yep. We mostly did restaurant takeout before the pandemic, tanyev Apr 2021 #10
Just received a lecture today! Tink41 Apr 2021 #12
Is there any pressing reason your new found normal... Hugin Apr 2021 #13
Yes. Tink41 Apr 2021 #19
That is a tough nut. Hugin Apr 2021 #22
Hilarious to your first part Tink41 Apr 2021 #23
It is important to be honest and open with them... Hugin Apr 2021 #28
Normal sucks. hunter Apr 2021 #14
Bwah! Ain't that the truth! When the thing started we introverts were like, "What's new/different UTUSN Apr 2021 #15
I was a practicing extrovert before the pandemic vercetti2021 Apr 2021 #16
Count me in on the dread Generic Brad Apr 2021 #18
Maybe they'll let you set up an office in the men's room FakeNoose Apr 2021 #27
Hope I get to keep my red stapler! Generic Brad Apr 2021 #31
Does this mean I need to get a haircut and bathe every day? Piasladic Apr 2021 #20
Having had a seriously introverted friend for the past.. electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #21
K&R berniesandersmittens Apr 2021 #25
Dreading return to the office BlueNProud Apr 2021 #26
Well, I've always thought 'normal' was over-rated. nt eppur_se_muova Apr 2021 #29
I'm slightly more introverted than I am extroverted. llmart Apr 2021 #30
It's definitely been easier for me. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #32
I am a state home health worker, so my routine hasn't changed. MerryBlooms Apr 2021 #33
We aren't out of the woods yet. These new variants mean we cant socialize like before Arazi Apr 2021 #34
Moderna for me, but J&J isn't bad at all. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #35
I personally got Pfizer but I'm going to tell everyone I got J&J Arazi Apr 2021 #41
Lol! Well, that's better than lying to be a parasite... Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #43
I fear Americans are too screwed up to expect those kind of vaccination numbers misanthrope Apr 2021 #38
Yup. I think we still have a long time before it will be rude to refuse to gather Arazi Apr 2021 #42
"Meet the introverts who..." greenjar_01 Apr 2021 #36
Don't worry, we could very well be back in a surge before long misanthrope Apr 2021 #37
The IT workplace has changed permanently. roamer65 Apr 2021 #39
I'm definitely dreading returning to the office, but not so much because I'm an introvert Silent3 Apr 2021 #40
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