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porphyrian

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2. If you cannot approach your wife with this directly, try asking her counselor.

Reply to fingrinn (Original post)

Mon Oct 15, 2012, 09:30 AM

Oct 2012

Without legal documents signed, and depending on your state's laws, the counselor will probably not be able to discuss you wife's medical/psychological history with you (HIPAA), but the counselor may have advice for you in how to approach your wife about this.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] fingrinn Oct 2012 OP

Have your wife talk to the local police department's person who works w/ rape victims or Botany Oct 2012 #1

*vibes for her* irisblue Oct 2012 #6

If you cannot approach your wife with this directly, try asking her counselor. porphyrian Oct 2012 #2

Encourage her to talk to go back to a counselor. A counselor will Not tell her what to do, but will Ninga Oct 2012 #3

It is a mistake Sekhmets Daughter Oct 2012 #4

I want to support her fingrinn Oct 2012 #7

Love her...pretty simple. Sekhmets Daughter Oct 2012 #13

"Why would you encourage you wife to do anything?" demwing Oct 2012 #9

Caring about her does not entail Sekhmets Daughter Oct 2012 #14

I am not offended fingrinn Oct 2012 #20

There is no debate on this. She MUST tell. If I were the husband and my wife gave me the details rainanna 14 Oct 2012 #15

Post removed Post removed Oct 2012 #16

This is information that the police need to know... CoffeeCat Oct 2012 #5

The difficulty is fingrinn Oct 2012 #8

Seek help immediately with a Rape Crisis Counselor NotThisTime Oct 2012 #11

I agree with Botany. She should go directly to the local police and file a report. HopeHoops Oct 2012 #10

As a Woman I Commend Your Wife mstinamotorcity2 Oct 2012 #12

Talk to your wife before you go behind her back and do anything. randome Oct 2012 #17

Sorry, but I fail to see what the police can do for your wife all these years later. lindysalsagal Oct 2012 #18

Thank you all fingrinn Oct 2012 #19