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mopinko

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30. yeah, he still hasnt

Thu Jul 29, 2021, 07:48 PM

Jul 2021

had a couple gf's but of the whirlwind variety. didnt last long, and did a lot of damage.

he loves me the best he can, but trust is hard. and i cant swear to him that getting help would help, cuz i cant say shrinks have done much for me.
he wants to bury it. he cant share it. yet.

he's such a tender soul, too. rough and tumble at play as a kid, but sweet to his sibs and pets.
that his friend stood by and watched is prolly the worst bit.

i hope i get to send you that message some day. worked rly hard to reach out to him in the last year. he did shitty shit. i had to kick him out of the house.
seems like reaching out just makes the hole deeper. i dunno.

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seriously people. prison rape is not funny. quit w the damn jokes. [View all] mopinko Jul 2021 OP

THANK YOU Skittles Jul 2021 #1

Agree... Mike Nelson Jul 2021 #2

it shouldnt be assumed to be 'part of the punishment' mopinko Jul 2021 #4

It was bluedevil4 Jul 2021 #3

welcome to du. mopinko Jul 2021 #5

Hi, bluedevil wryter2000 Jul 2021 #9

Also, stop with the penis size crap. multigraincracker Jul 2021 #6

Thank you wryter2000 Jul 2021 #8

+1000, some DUers are terrible about these topics! Nt USALiberal Jul 2021 #18

There seem to be some obsessed with dick, p---y etc., jokes and so on. Treefrog Jul 2021 #163

I've complained about that before, but the complaints get no traction whatsoever Silent3 Jul 2021 #84

You're over-thinking and over-analyzing it. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #99

You are under-thinking. /nt tonedevil Jul 2021 #125

Ha! I'm laughing. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #126

I'm sure you are. /nt tonedevil Jul 2021 #127

Yes. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #128

+1 progressoid Jul 2021 #145

I've made a post before... LiberatedUSA Jul 2021 #136

I think that about covers it... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #138

So how does that analogy work with female "gun nuts"? progressoid Jul 2021 #144

They are just saying penis size in place of... LiberatedUSA Jul 2021 #146

It's a lazy analogy. progressoid Jul 2021 #147

Who cares? It gets under their skin, so... mission accomplished. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #155

Does it though? progressoid Jul 2021 #158

Of course it does! Because they know it's true... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #159

Nice try. progressoid Jul 2021 #160

Nice dodge. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #161

Maybe we should call them Trump n*gg**s? Silent3 Jul 2021 #166

Trump Nuggets? What a silly thing to say! NurseJackie Jul 2021 #170

I often find that this smiley... Silent3 Jul 2021 #172

Actually... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #177

I'm not at all surprised you've reduced yourself to that argument. LanternWaste Jul 2021 #179

Courage doesn't enter into it. It is about the fact that the gun nuts are so obviously Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #171

I'm overthinking it, therefore what? Silent3 Jul 2021 #152

Sure! Why not? NurseJackie Jul 2021 #156

A couple of interesting sub-threads. Dr. Sigmund Freud would have a ball with these - pun intended! George II Jul 2021 #186

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar... NurseJackie Jul 2021 #187

Ha! NurseJackie Jul 2021 #95

Those GD mufflers are so annoying! BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #107

Overly loud trucks are another one... LiberatedUSA Jul 2021 #153

I find it useful sarisataka Jul 2021 #101

Does that happen to you often? NurseJackie Jul 2021 #157

Not very much sarisataka Jul 2021 #173

This. Treefrog Jul 2021 #164

Thank you. NullTuples Jul 2021 #184

No rape is funny wryter2000 Jul 2021 #7

male on male rape is bad shit. mopinko Jul 2021 #10

I'm so sorry to hear that! i know a handful of men who were raped as teens. femmedem Jul 2021 #13

i hope he gets where you are. mopinko Jul 2021 #14

10 is so very young to experience that trauma. femmedem Jul 2021 #24

yeah, he still hasnt mopinko Jul 2021 #30

Heartbreaking. femmedem Jul 2021 #69

i'm reasonable certain mopinko Jul 2021 #169

So very sorry North Shore Chicago Jul 2021 #75

This message was self-deleted by its author mopinko Jul 2021 #81

Good morning North Shore Chicago Jul 2021 #83

As a survivor of rape wryter2000 Jul 2021 #133

there are degrees. mopinko Jul 2021 #134

I, too, wish it was an explicit rule. duhneece Jul 2021 #11

oh honey. mopinko Jul 2021 #12

Thank you. brer cat Jul 2021 #15

apparently. mopinko Jul 2021 #16

I'll alert every post I read that does that. Many are blocked. Nt USALiberal Jul 2021 #17

they usually do. mopinko Jul 2021 #19

I agree, I think we should be able to give a reason! Nt USALiberal Jul 2021 #21

agree nt spooky3 Jul 2021 #26

used to be able to. mopinko Jul 2021 #35

A poster personally attacked me today and someone alerted, not me. It was hidden. Treefrog Jul 2021 #67

send that to admin mopinko Jul 2021 #80

Thanks, I was wondering about going to Community Help. It was really nasty. Treefrog Jul 2021 #111

the things that come out under the cloak of anonymity. mopinko Jul 2021 #113

There's an alert button on the bottom of the email. Ms. Toad Jul 2021 #119

Aha! Treefrog Jul 2021 #120

I had to go check to make sure it was still there. Ms. Toad Jul 2021 #121

Why that's terrible!!!! NNadir Jul 2021 #151

your ears burning? mopinko Jul 2021 #154

No. I'm just stating my opinion along with a fact from my life. NNadir Jul 2021 #167

Alerts are hit and miss. Iggo Jul 2021 #39

i have a pretty long list. mopinko Jul 2021 #98

I use half the block function Hekate Jul 2021 #135

i assume there are replies here i cant see. mopinko Jul 2021 #137

It's just as well.... Hekate Jul 2021 #141

i peeked mopinko Jul 2021 #148

Yep. I use that as a replacement for the old "Friends" list. Iggo Jul 2021 #143

Me, too. Iggo Jul 2021 #142

100% MenloParque Jul 2021 #20

+1000, some like school children! Nt USALiberal Jul 2021 #22

It is never OK to make rape jokes, ever. TNNurse Jul 2021 #23

Lot of cheers for extra, on the side, prison punishment... LiberatedUSA Jul 2021 #25

yeah, it's so 'soft on crime' mopinko Jul 2021 #33

I was assused by 2 DU dudes just yesterday of "excusing" crime maxsolomon Jul 2021 #40

It is sad you have to remind people, but it is not surprising. Behind the Aegis Jul 2021 #27

egad. mopinko Jul 2021 #31

K&R! Solly Mack Jul 2021 #28

Rape in any circumstances and wishing or making statements of littlemissmartypants Jul 2021 #29

maybe the saddest thing is what a common threat rape has become. mopinko Jul 2021 #32

Extra judicial punishment "jokes" sarisataka Jul 2021 #34

yup. mopinko Jul 2021 #36

It never ends. Iggo Jul 2021 #37

yeah. shoot on sight. mopinko Jul 2021 #38

I'd expand it to prison violence as a whole. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2021 #41

right there w you. mopinko Jul 2021 #42

Prison Bitch ZERTErYNOthe Jul 2021 #43

You should remove that video. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #112

Why is that still here? Treefrog Jul 2021 #165

Beats the hell out of me. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #168

Post removed Post removed Jul 2021 #44

i'm not the govt. and i cant remove anything. mopinko Jul 2021 #45

This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #53

Thank you! LW1977 Jul 2021 #54

you signed a tos, too. mopinko Jul 2021 #59

Another one? You signed the TOS. You apparently did not read the TOS. I suggest you do so. nt Hekate Jul 2021 #61

So, you think rape "jokes" are funny? obamanut2012 Jul 2021 #73

Unsurprising you applaud the jar-jar binks of posts... LanternWaste Jul 2021 #149

. Iggo Jul 2021 #162

"Censorship"? You signed the TOS. You apparently did not read the TOS. I suggest you do so. nt Hekate Jul 2021 #60

So, you think prison rape "jokes" are funny obamanut2012 Jul 2021 #72

Totally agree greenjar_01 Jul 2021 #46

Post removed Post removed Jul 2021 #47

Well done! LW1977 Jul 2021 #51

How sad of you. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #115

You chose poorly. Again. LanternWaste Jul 2021 #150

is that supposed to be funny? mopinko Jul 2021 #56

Yep Tarc Jul 2021 #91

Proves your point. AngryOldDem Jul 2021 #102

at least the jury got it right. mopinko Jul 2021 #110

Really glad to see this. AngryOldDem Jul 2021 #116

Jesus Hekate Jul 2021 #62

You're welcome Tarc Jul 2021 #92

That's one Hekate Jul 2021 #130

Explain why rape "jokes" are funny? obamanut2012 Jul 2021 #74

It's only funny if you think rape is a punishment for wrongful actions NYC Liberal Jul 2021 #78

Humor is in the eye of the beholder Tarc Jul 2021 #93

I suppose... sarisataka Jul 2021 #105

Probably the same ones. The through-line is enjoyment of extreme cruelty to others. nt Hekate Jul 2021 #140

Grow the fuck up. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #106

K and R Ferrets are Cool Jul 2021 #48

You know where I stand on this! Absolutely! marble falls Jul 2021 #49

Post removed Post removed Jul 2021 #50

utterly disgusting considering the subject. mopinko Jul 2021 #58

Oh good, it's gone Hekate Jul 2021 #65

thank you jurors. mopinko Jul 2021 #66

There's alot of this "problem" zipplewrath Jul 2021 #52

Seems like a solution in search of a problem. BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #55

cuz fortunately, most get a quick hide. mopinko Jul 2021 #57

Check out LBN when there's a thread about someone being NYC Liberal Jul 2021 #79

You didn't see them? Well, gosh. That must mean they don't exist. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #122

Well golly gee, I must have missed the part where I said they don't exist. BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #123

I'm with you, mopinko. Some of the responses are heartwrenching, & some are plain disgusting Hekate Jul 2021 #63

argh. i wish i knew. mopinko Jul 2021 #64

A poster here wrote about their own horrible experience with prison violence. Treefrog Jul 2021 #68

We have someone who is a smoker and who eats out at restaurants BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #103

Lol, I'll have to keep my eyes out for that one. Treefrog Jul 2021 #114

Thank you. Mike Niendorff Jul 2021 #70

Yeah, and some are being "cutesy" about it obamanut2012 Jul 2021 #71

yeah, i've seen mopinko Jul 2021 #85

And think everyone in prison is guilty obamanut2012 Jul 2021 #89

and they manage to fly around here under the radar. mopinko Jul 2021 #90

Agreed. BannonsLiver Jul 2021 #124

yeah, i'm not that happy about those comments, either. mopinko Jul 2021 #175

point. one doesn't justify the other stopdiggin Jul 2021 #183

Agree entirely and thanks, Mopinko. Hortensis Jul 2021 #76

Last weekend North Shore Chicago Jul 2021 #77

Agree 100%. n/t LuckyCharms Jul 2021 #82

good to see you back. mopinko Jul 2021 #87

Thank you, mopinko. Good to see you as well and... LuckyCharms Jul 2021 #88

Thank you!!! cally Jul 2021 #86

yeah, i skip a lot of them, too. mopinko Jul 2021 #96

And, how do they know Wednesdays Jul 2021 #94

it def builds new rapists. mopinko Jul 2021 #104

Agreed. AngryOldDem Jul 2021 #97

You know what's depressing? intheflow Jul 2021 #100

yup. it does take constant maintenance to keep things decent here. it's a sad fact. mopinko Jul 2021 #108

worth noting mopinko Jul 2021 #188

The cockroaches are coming out of the woodwork on this thread. Scrivener7 Jul 2021 #109

meh. it's just a couple. mopinko Jul 2021 #131

It's good to turn the lights on every now and again. Iggo Jul 2021 #182

Thankfully, I mssed whatever triggered this. Ms. Toad Jul 2021 #117

it's been a trickle. mopinko Jul 2021 #132

Can't agree more Johnny2X2X Jul 2021 #118

I agree. Cinnamonspice Jul 2021 #129

It is part of the human condition, that we do need to work to change. Caliman73 Jul 2021 #139

Someone on du woke me up to this about 10 or 12 years ago Bucky Jul 2021 #174

Agree! Catherine Vincent Jul 2021 #176

Post removed Post removed Jul 2021 #178

Thank you. No, rape of any kind anywhere is NO JOKE. PatrickforB Jul 2021 #180

K and R. Agreed Ishoutandscream2 Jul 2021 #181

Just adding another Thank You. NullTuples Jul 2021 #185