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In reply to the discussion: I'm heartbroken. How can people be so cruel? [View all]NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)155. It's maddening and heartbreaking.
the family would have nothing to do with a funeral.)
It's maddening and heartbreaking.
When I first became aware of the AIDS Quilt, I thought it was intended to be a way to tell the world "look how many are dying!" but if you look closer at the fact that each one is custom-made and personalized, it becomes much more than a political or activist statement... it's a memorial that gives us a glimpse of the person. It says "they were here" and "we loved them" and "they mattered to us"... and "they will not be erased or forgotten".
It was an inspired idea. Genius. It addressed so many objectives and so many layers with just a single concept.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NAMES_Project_AIDS_Memorial_Quilt#Display_location
In November 2019 the NAMES Project Foundation and House Speaker Nancy Pelosi announced that the quilt would relocate to San Francisco under the permanent care and stewardship of the National AIDS Memorial starting in 2020.[61] The Project's archives were gifted to the joint care with the American Folklife Center at the U.S. Library of Congress, allowing for greater public access.[62][63] This action returns the quilt to San Francisco, where the project began.
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That you took the time to post that touching remembrance of your friend speaks volumes about
Atticus
Aug 2021
#4
What a beautiful and touching eulogy you've written, my dear NurseJackie...
CaliforniaPeggy
Aug 2021
#7
After Rock Hudson and Liberace... but before Freddy Mercury. Yes people were ignorant and afraid.
NurseJackie
Aug 2021
#16
When I was in high school, pregnant girls were sent away to have their babies...
Hekate
Aug 2021
#62
And I remember his parents. I thought they were kind... just "normal" parents.
NurseJackie
Aug 2021
#35
Really sad, but your nice rememberance does a little to make it better. Nicely done.
EarnestPutz
Aug 2021
#21
I understand their motivation and their fear. But it was still cruel. I agree.
NurseJackie
Aug 2021
#51
The parents ignorant actions were tragic but David's story left me feeling empty
RVN VET71
Aug 2021
#143
He'd moved from the "big city" of Atlanta back to our little central Georgia...
NurseJackie
Aug 2021
#64
It was so common then -- but even now, small towns are places where homogeneity rules...
Hekate
Aug 2021
#75
A very justified rant! That someone you remembered fondly and tried to find again,
Tadpole Raisin
Aug 2021
#32
I'm so sorry, Nurse Jackie. My cousin died the same way, in secret at his parents' home.
femmedem
Aug 2021
#42
Nice that you were able to track him down and find out about his life. Although they appeared....
George II
Aug 2021
#73
Your take is probably right but it is possible that there is another perspective
PurgedVoter
Aug 2021
#129