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2naSalit

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Mon Sep 20, 2021, 03:54 PM
Sep 2021

My dad's and my brother's MO was to claim the female in the altercation is crazy and needs to go to mental health facility. And that's often what happened and that stayed on their records when applying for jobs or apartments, it was evil and sick.

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This is so damned inexcusable. Jirel Sep 2021 #1
Had they called in a female cop trained in dv & listened to Gabby's story, she would have been .... Budi Sep 2021 #4
So who thinks these cops don't beat women themselves malaise Sep 2021 #2
Narcissism is more common than one thinks & it is accepted & covered up by the same Budi Sep 2021 #5
You know what makes me even sicker malaise Sep 2021 #6
It is the twisted manipulation of a narcissist that controlled the outcome of the cop call. Budi Sep 2021 #11
And there are dozens of victims daily across the planet malaise Sep 2021 #13
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Good point because Ma and Pa allowed him to live at home with her malaise Sep 2021 #27
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He could be on a beach in Mobay malaise Sep 2021 #39
Police did separate them after the fight. LisaL Sep 2021 #30
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That fight was 2 weeks before her mother last spoke to her. LisaL Sep 2021 #38
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This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Sep 2021 #7
+1 2naSalit Sep 2021 #9
Yup. The narcissist will always convince you that it's your fault. Always. Budi Sep 2021 #14
Right? Not even 2M people in all of Montana PLUS Wyoming. Maru Kitteh Sep 2021 #43
It's not uncommon for an abused wnylib Sep 2021 #22
Sad malaise Sep 2021 #23
Hey, no self violence, either! wnylib Sep 2021 #37
Bingo! I believe that's it. Nt LittleGirl Sep 2021 #24
Any half hour of television will quickly teach you Maru Kitteh Sep 2021 #46
This message was self-deleted by its author malaise Sep 2021 #3
i recently found out that in some chicago's suburbs, if you call in a dv, that person must to jail. mopinko Sep 2021 #8
... 2naSalit Sep 2021 #10
the process of determining female sanity is about like reading chicken entrails if you ask me. still mopinko Sep 2021 #12
I really can't argue with that... 2naSalit Sep 2021 #36
So many people on social media calling her the abuser obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #15
She was only 22 yrs old. Just starting out into adulthood. Budi Sep 2021 #16
The cops said she was the offender Deuxcents Sep 2021 #17
"Maybe he'll meet up with an alligator and put this all to rest." Budi Sep 2021 #19
Why doesn't the truth come out FIRST??? Karma13612 Sep 2021 #18
If I am following this correctly Zeitghost Sep 2021 #41
Since the police clearly falsified their report cate94 Sep 2021 #20
It's not just twisted, it's archaic. wnylib Sep 2021 #29
You are right cate94 Sep 2021 #57
The friend was a couple years older than I was wnylib Sep 2021 #60
It'd be interesting to know what the dispatcher told the police Sympthsical Sep 2021 #21
How long are those dispatchers trained? LittleGirl Sep 2021 #25
fuck TallMike Sep 2021 #28
Only IF he really is in Florida. I think that wnylib Sep 2021 #34
I don't believe he is in Florida or even on US Soil.. Pachamama Sep 2021 #58
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #35
Just finished watching the Karma13612 Sep 2021 #33
The cops in Utah dropped the ball. Treefrog Sep 2021 #42
The cops in Utah Karma13612 Sep 2021 #56
Well... 2naSalit Sep 2021 #40
Yeah, this really helps explain things. honest.abe Sep 2021 #44
I have only seen one reference to this on TV today. I hope senseandsensibility Sep 2021 #45
He had bite and scratch marks she had none. Tribetime Sep 2021 #47
He had a mark on his hand and told them he scratched it on a fence. boston bean Sep 2021 #50
Probably defending herself. boston bean Sep 2021 #51
If they had DV training it might wnylib Sep 2021 #52
I agree I think they made their decision on their training Tribetime Sep 2021 #53
Their PD could use some training, though. wnylib Sep 2021 #54
Anyone else see the parallels with the FBI and the US Women's Gymnastic team?? bullwinkle428 Sep 2021 #48
The cop telling her this, I want you to listen closely very closely boston bean Sep 2021 #49
+100000 Pachamama Sep 2021 #59
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