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Pachamama

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15. The Pandemic is far from over and your story is another example of its serious point
Sat Oct 2, 2021, 07:24 AM
Oct 2021

DFW - I am so sorry hearing your story about your family. I know that like me you are in Germany where you know that just in the US we still have Delta spreading and breakthrough cases and people who are anti-vaccine and anti-mask. The only thing that comforts me here more is the KN-95 masks required and the 2G or 3G rules that you don’t see consistent or at all in US. The fact that your son-in-law was double vaxxed (does that mean he had two shots, or two different kinds of vaccines or he was fully vaccinated plus booster?). That business trip to Atlanta was likely culprit adding higher risk of exposure since their rules are not as strict as NYC.

There have been so many breakthrough cases with some people I know, but mostly asymptomatic and they are always shocked to find out they tested positive. Only one of them had symptoms and they received monoclonal antibody infusions. I don’t know anyone with a booster who has gotten a breakthrough case. But the fact he is having a symptomatic case and bad symptoms at that must be concerning and I feel for your daughter and family how stressful and scary this must be.

Speaking to your daughter regularly and giving her support emotionally matters a lot - for him too. Food delivery service to ease her workload helps a ton. Take comfort from that they are in NYC where there is good level of care should he need it and that he isn’t in say Idaho or Alaska or states that have limited care capacity if he needed it.

I do have an Important question to ask - has he had a doctor who he is working with that could order for him monoclonal antibodies? I ask because of the breakthrough case I knew with symptoms, that is what they had ordered from their physician at UCSF and they recovered fairly quickly. The key apparently with monoclonal antibodies is getting it early on.

Sending you and your family lots of love and good energy and thoughts for recovery and good health.

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Best wishes to them! n/t PoliticAverse Oct 2021 #1
Thanks for that! DFW Oct 2021 #4
Oh no, so sorry to hear this DFW. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #2
Her employer has been extremely accommodating DFW Oct 2021 #5
Do not underestimate the value of your support right now. Irish_Dem Oct 2021 #8
I'm so sorry to hear this. Lonestarblue Oct 2021 #3
Just keeping in touch by phone as much as we can without being overbearing. DFW Oct 2021 #6
Feeling helpless when a child is suffering is terrible. brer cat Oct 2021 #7
I'm so sorry MissB Oct 2021 #9
When my brother had a hard case of Covid, early last year, it was the most helpless I've ever felt Siwsan Oct 2021 #10
One small way you might be able to help.... RealityBasedNewYorkr Oct 2021 #11
They do have that, actually, but thanks for the suggestion DFW Oct 2021 #12
Oh DFW I'm so sad to hear this. róisín_dubh Oct 2021 #13
Now is the most dangerous phase DFW Oct 2021 #14
The Pandemic is far from over and your story is another example of its serious point Pachamama Oct 2021 #15
So sorry to hear this! I understand how frustrating that can be. CaptainTruth Oct 2021 #16
Yes, to getting the monoclonal antibodies mnhtnbb Oct 2021 #17
Oh, this is sooo very hard on you, I can only imagine!!! secondwind Oct 2021 #18
Bummer. I think you're doing more than you think, by ... planetc Oct 2021 #19
hoping for the best markie Oct 2021 #20
So sorry to hear this. panader0 Oct 2021 #21
What a difficult situation for all, I really appalachiablue Oct 2021 #22
I am so sorry your family has to go through this. BoomaofBandM Oct 2021 #23
I wish that I had some helpful, realistic advice for you. What you described is niyad Oct 2021 #24
Thanks niyad! DFW Oct 2021 #25
Prayers for your daughter, SIL and grandson FakeNoose Oct 2021 #26
I want to add my sincere wish for better things for both you and your family. CTyankee Oct 2021 #27
Well, that sucks. Nevilledog Oct 2021 #28
Serious worry about the kids, god! Knock wood, it's been a while Hortensis Oct 2021 #29
Thanks for the kind words, all. It seems that once it starts, it doesn't stop. DFW Oct 2021 #30
I'll be thinking of you and your family --so sorry all this is going on Hekate Oct 2021 #31
I'm so sorry to hear this, DFW mvd Oct 2021 #32
I'm so sorry to hear about your family, DFW. smirkymonkey Oct 2021 #33
I am so sorry to hear this, DFW. sheshe2 Oct 2021 #34
Oh my dear DFW, my heart goes out to all of you at this perilous time. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2021 #35
I'm so sorry. I know you and your wife are feeling this sense of helplessness hard. Solly Mack Oct 2021 #36
Take care of yourself, too, DFW. Grasswire2 Oct 2021 #37
I'm so sorry canetoad Oct 2021 #38
I'm so sorry. Duppers Oct 2021 #39
I cleared COVID, my ideas IbogaProject Oct 2021 #40
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