People with toxic personality types like narcissism,sociopathy and authoritarians like to abuse people and gaslight them. They love committing crimes and love being crimials and bullies and abuse power.They get off on it,get high off it like an addict except they know its wrong but dont care if its wrong.
Black people and other non whites were thier targets for hate and abuse. In the past and now. Other whites looked the other way, also these "tyrant kings of thier homes" got away with abusing women and children in the home.
A man had to keep them in line and " train"that willful woman into a proper wife the abused said nothing about the abuse perpretrated by the domestic tyrant. Keep it in the family..
These white sociopathic narcissistic monsters were the school bullies the popular ones with thier little gangs of obedient authoritarians.
Who were underlings of the bully with power hoping they wont be a target of the monsters wrath.
These toxic people basically abused ,raped ,beat,killed and hurt others and got away with it for centuries.Thier culture,the toxic white male culture gave them privilege and With it the "right" to abuse kill or rape and lynch certain others,beat thier wives and kids. Intervening on behalf of the victims of these assholes were like taboos almost.
Besides women were made as powerless as possible and dependant on the possibly violent husbands they basically were captive. Not like slaves but they couldnt just leave.
This I think is what these right wing male incel toxic people trash really want back its the culture they want..Along with the privleged status.
And they will overthrow democracy if they dont get thier way.
The mental health services in this country are woefully underfunded.
So many hurting people
These monsters leave in thier wake .so many kids broken.
I think the increase
sociopathy,narcissism and sociopathy is a threat to humanity as serious as global climate change.
Abuse doesent create sociopaths or narcissists if it did we would be overrun with them.
The "vampire myth "does not apply to abuse.
These toxic personalities don't improve with therapy,drugs dont work either.
What do we do about it?
Because I don't know what to do.
But our country ,our democracy is being threatened by these bad people.
And I dont want to live under the empire of malignant narcissists