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Hekate

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27. Before I moved out at 19 1/2, I initiated a conversation with my father in which I asked him...
Wed Feb 23, 2022, 04:39 PM
Feb 2022

… for basic information that I had never gotten from either of my parents. We had no money.

In all honesty, all my mother knew how to do was be poor — we were well-fed and my entire wardrobe was pretty good hand-me-downs, and a place to live was never in doubt, but extras were out of the question and everything was an extra and she was the one who had to say it.

Dad was a silent man. But he brought home the paycheck. So I sat him down at the kitchen table with my pen, a stack of paper, and the Want Ads, and started asking him basic questions about rent, utilities, groceries, and so on.

That was it. Nothing about checkbooks or credit cards. Nothing about how to find a job that paid a cent more than minimum wage — he could have gotten me a job at his unionized plant, but no, that was his world. I didn’t even know how to ask the right questions of employers — or my college.

I just don’t have a lot of faith in the financial intelligence of high schoolers. Well-off or poor, they are in their parents’ bubble — until they aren’t.



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This actually makes sense. we can do it Feb 2022 #1
absolutely. And teach them how to cook and run a household. EVERYONE, M and F CurtEastPoint Feb 2022 #2
Yes we can do it Feb 2022 #7
Almost 40 yrs. ago, taking a business class that taught us how to balance oregonjen Feb 2022 #4
Same here. SergeStorms Feb 2022 #9
Florida to force students to be able to read and write to graduate. No essay no diploma. NightWatcher Feb 2022 #3
Me too. we can do it Feb 2022 #6
Well that sounds like a good idea. nt doc03 Feb 2022 #5
Seems reasonable Zorro Feb 2022 #8
Oh, wow. Baitball Blogger Feb 2022 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author dameatball Feb 2022 #11
This is for High School students. Nt cinematicdiversions Feb 2022 #17
Oops. I obviously failed my mandatory pre-graduation reading comprehension course...:) Thanks for dameatball Feb 2022 #19
Just to be clear. genxlib Feb 2022 #18
My bad! Rant over. dameatball Feb 2022 #20
Will they be taught to read gotcha insurance contracts? soryang Feb 2022 #12
I thought this was the ROLE of parents? ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2022 #13
Before I moved out at 19 1/2, I initiated a conversation with my father in which I asked him... Hekate Feb 2022 #27
Something else for the football coach to teach! Thunderbeast Feb 2022 #14
Mandatory - no. But it is a great course to offer to students. patricia92243 Feb 2022 #15
Broken clock phenomena pecosbob Feb 2022 #16
Sorry but this fails to register on my outrage meter ripcord Feb 2022 #21
That is kind of the gag. People are constantly pushing outrage bait (Some very legitimate) but cinematicdiversions Feb 2022 #24
This is a life skill. I didn't know how to use a checkbook until college. Fortunately, I was savvy... Hekate Feb 2022 #22
This is actually the one thing that Florida has done recently that I agree with genxlib Feb 2022 #23
I agree. Duppers Feb 2022 #39
This is a first-rate idea! I am all for it. CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2022 #25
As a retired Florida HS teacher cachukis Feb 2022 #26
Will they teach how the GOP has destroyed unions & suppressed wages? CaptainTruth Feb 2022 #28
That would be politics and US History, as you know Hekate Feb 2022 #29
I'm actually in favor of this forthemiddle Feb 2022 #30
Sex Ed -Yes, Financial Ed - Yes. nt. BlueIdaho Feb 2022 #31
Got my full approval..... financial literacy keithbvadu2 Feb 2022 #32
It doesn't make sense in today's world...no one balances checkbooks today... Demsrule86 Feb 2022 #33
It is still good to know how to do it. It is the skill that teaches. cinematicdiversions Feb 2022 #36
That doesn't actually sound like a bad idea. Crunchy Frog Feb 2022 #34
One of the few sensible things to come out of Florida recently. marmar Feb 2022 #35
The party of small government. That worships a guy who filed bankruptcy 6 times. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2022 #37
This is a great idea ellie Feb 2022 #38
I regret to this day not taking the typing semester. cinematicdiversions Mar 2022 #40
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