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Grammy23

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24. I think that any woman facing an unintended pregnancy should have the choice of
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 11:51 AM
Oct 2012

whether to continue the pregnancy or not. However, people who believe that there are NO exceptions to allowing abortion are firm in their beliefs, too. Many of them base it on FAITH which is a powerful motivator for them. The whole subject is laden with emotion and, for many of them, is reinforced by a faith that they have practiced since childhood. In addition, many of them have ZERO capacity for thinking critically. So how do you get through to them to even begin the conversation of why individual CHOICE should be the law of the land?

You have to approach the subject with an equally powerful emotional argument to get past all the walls they have built up to deflect anything that conflicts with their view of the world and how it SHOULD be. It is when you bring a situation like pregnancy as a result of rape that you may begin to have a starting point for them. You have to demonstrate to them that it is possible that there might be a situation that IS the exception for when abortion might be allowable.

Once you get them accustomed to the idea that we do not live in a black and white world, one rule applies to all, then you might have a chance to suggest that CHOICE for the individual is the LOGICAL path. But you cannot do that until you've knocked down some of their barriers to this argument.

I know that some would go straight to the argument that CHOICE is the best path, but if you're failing to get them to hear you, your words are wasted and sometimes only reinforce the very beliefs you are asking them to question.

And finally, if you can convince them there really are exceptions to the rule of no abortions---period----then you can move on to the idea that CHOICE in all situations should be the law of the land.

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Exactly n/t RainDog Oct 2012 #1
My personal view on abortion is irrelevant! MAD Dave Oct 2012 #2
It gets on my nerves too deadbrokediva Oct 2012 #3
Well said--and welcome to DU! classof56 Oct 2012 #8
She pushes that because this is the first time CitizenPatriot Oct 2012 #14
It is simply a wedge used to split the anti choice crowd. Motown_Johnny Oct 2012 #4
That is a very good point. redqueen Oct 2012 #19
Like the old "donkey" joke: First, you get its attention. WinkyDink Oct 2012 #5
republican rape panels mgardener Oct 2012 #6
Yes Sadiedog Oct 2012 #7
Absolutely right handsomebwonderful Oct 2012 #9
That's the whole reason why Republicans have been CitizenPatriot Oct 2012 #16
We cannot fight for womens rights overseas SCVDem Oct 2012 #10
May I have your permission to use that on twitter? (Nt) Doodler71 Oct 2012 #28
Please do. nt SCVDem Oct 2012 #29
Hell, the Dem party platform makes me worry that we're marginalizing women, full stop. redqueen Oct 2012 #11
+1 leftstreet Oct 2012 #13
agreed. PeaceNikki Oct 2012 #12
It just shows how far right the debate has moved. morningfog Oct 2012 #15
I think EC Oct 2012 #17
exactly. women on birth control for medical reasons are no more entitled than those PeaceNikki Oct 2012 #18
Excellent idea. redqueen Oct 2012 #20
This is exactly what the GOP wants us doing justiceischeap Oct 2012 #21
Agree. SalviaBlue Oct 2012 #22
Women own their bodies gollygee Oct 2012 #23
I think that any woman facing an unintended pregnancy should have the choice of Grammy23 Oct 2012 #24
wong as could possibly be. cali Oct 2012 #27
"All women are entitled to access to safe, legal abortion services."... SidDithers Oct 2012 #25
Bravo! AzDar Oct 2012 #26
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