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OldBaldy1701E

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42. She was lucky to have you there.
Mon May 16, 2022, 06:36 PM
May 2022

And, you were even luckier that the family did not decide to blame you for everything that they determined was stuff that they did not like. To make along story short, I worked in a private school for close to ten years. In that time, I had a few parents speak out against me (still do not know why except that I did not look like a successful, GQ-type), and had two staff members turn on me, with one of them trying to get me arrested and in trouble with the state Child Protective Services (both staff members were just being asshats, with the one deciding that his own failure as a staff member was my fault. Which was interesting considering that we were two different departments, and I had little to do with him or his department. My point is that flaky parents can and will do anything to maintain their hold on their children and that is a danger to those of us who feel that the old adage about a village is true.

I am warmed to hear that you had such an influence on that woman. I worked hard in the time I was with those kids to have such an effect. I have no idea if I did. Based on the evidence, I would say I did not. Another failure in a lifetime of it.

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This is so disturbing [View all] Norbert May 2022 OP
now THAT is "GROOMING" Skittles May 2022 #1
Children aren't born DEPLORABLE Martin Eden May 2022 #12
Damm right. Great point. Wish the one in the middle had blown Dad's head off (accidentally) Evolve Dammit May 2022 #25
Imagine the seething hatred they're grooming the kids with. Child abuse! 634-5789 May 2022 #2
Yes, it is child abuse but it's next to impossible wnylib May 2022 #20
Being careful is not the issue. OldBaldy1701E May 2022 #26
I was once a volunteer Big Sister for a 7 year old girl wnylib May 2022 #31
She was lucky to have you there. OldBaldy1701E May 2022 #42
Wow vercetti2021 May 2022 #3
How many news stories have we seen of a 5-year-old shooting his 2-year-old brother? Rhiannon12866 May 2022 #4
What are those things that the parents are holding? IcyPeas May 2022 #5
It's a javelin cage Bernardo de La Paz May 2022 #6
Compound bows DetroitLegalBeagle May 2022 #7
Bow and arrows ashredux May 2022 #15
That's so sick! Emile May 2022 #8
I already have comments on both those threads on Twitter. smirkymonkey May 2022 #9
Very disturbing vlyons May 2022 #10
Thank you. OM. Evolve Dammit May 2022 #27
I find the obscene flags disturbing bucolic_frolic May 2022 #11
I saw a pickup truck in Lafayette, Indiana flying a FUCK BIDEN Emile May 2022 #14
Down my street there's Lars39 May 2022 #19
Alas we cannot change others vlyons May 2022 #29
"anger is poison" bucolic_frolic May 2022 #33
Anger is poison are words written by a Tibetan lama vlyons May 2022 #35
What kind of society arms its children? Irish_Dem May 2022 #13
The hatred taught and instilled in these kids is not going away bucolic_frolic May 2022 #22
Would be interesting to ask the kid TheFarseer May 2022 #16
it would be interesting to ask the parent onethatcares May 2022 #28
CHILD ABUSE!!!!!!!! secondwind May 2022 #17
Not by any definition of the law. nt MarineCombatEngineer May 2022 #36
Usually, I invoke Bugs Bunny when referring to assholes like these -- "What a maroon." 3Hotdogs May 2022 #18
Ummm, MarineCombatEngineer May 2022 #30
There is hope newdayneeded May 2022 #21
I have found that these Magats gab13by13 May 2022 #23
Very disturbing and sad. nt ecstatic May 2022 #24
Christians no doubt. nt Hotler May 2022 #32
Kick dalton99a May 2022 #34
Pity that the gun in the hands of the kid on the floor did not go off, as it was niyad May 2022 #37
That's terrifying PatSeg May 2022 #38
Notice the soulless looks the kids have? Except for the littlest, they all have oregonjen May 2022 #39
Could those kids actually shoot those guns with the recoil? keithbvadu2 May 2022 #40
Probably, MarineCombatEngineer May 2022 #41
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