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usonian

(27,106 posts)
28. Both optimism and negativism are contagious ...
Tue May 17, 2022, 02:55 PM
May 2022

My feeling is that they are self-fulfilling (as well!)

At this stage of my life (I forgot the previous ones), I feel this way:

• Ignore the doomsayers. They are projecting taught inability.
• Don't try to change things upon which I have no control, or even influence in a finite amount of time.
• Do what's doable. Encourage others. Give them clear and concise facts they can share and use to focus their energies.
• Talk people off the ledge of "I am stamped from the beginning"

Methodology:
• Learn real basic psychology. People "project" either their taught inability or their inherent possibility.
• People who are brainwashed, addicted, cult members and so forth, all exhibit self-defeating traits (*)
• People do this because they believe stories fed them by "controllers"
• People generally don't think things through and suffer unintended consequences.
• Use these to help people who want to move forward.

My main goal here is to provide roadmaps for positive action, because only positive action helps oneself and others.
GOTV links:
https://democraticunderground.com/100216380145
Ukraine Humanitarian Relief
https://democraticunderground.com/100216497648

I will be expanding on "Every accusation is a confession".
This may help counter the bullshit, or at least explain it in 5 words.

(*) in short, projection, denial, self-centeredness, dualism, (this versus that, me versus you) demanding perfection (from others), judgmentalism, crisis-orientation, external referencing, forgetfulness (so we don't learn from the past), and so on. SOUND FAMILIAR?
See "When Society Becomes an Addict" by Anne Wilson Scheaf.

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Make sure you can recognize the difference between pessimism and cynicism. Novara May 2022 #1
+1 CrispyQ May 2022 #4
I believe those who stew in their pessimism have already been defeated EYESORE 9001 May 2022 #2
Where does "toxic positivity" cilla4progress May 2022 #3
It doesn't come into play with optimism. MineralMan May 2022 #6
Yeah BannonsLiver May 2022 #10
... emulatorloo May 2022 #27
Just ignore them and work toward good progress. SWBTATTReg May 2022 #5
Good points Tree-Hugger May 2022 #7
On board with that!!! Peacetrain May 2022 #8
I know you are. Thanks! MineralMan May 2022 #9
WOW! I am SO glad to hear that you just pass them right by. You just move on! Scrivener7 May 2022 #11
Lol! BlackSkimmer May 2022 #19
So, do you identify with those I describe as people to avoid? MineralMan May 2022 #20
No! I totally agree with your assertion that, if you come across a person who is Scrivener7 May 2022 #21
Abject nonsense. Act_of_Reparation May 2022 #12
Interesting and rather ironic take BannonsLiver May 2022 #14
I don't know what you mean. Act_of_Reparation May 2022 #16
Not so. It is not nonsense. MineralMan May 2022 #15
Again... Act_of_Reparation May 2022 #17
I'm optimistic climate change is a hoax. jalan48 May 2022 #13
Hmm...I'm optimistic that we can make changes that will influence MineralMan May 2022 #18
What will that be like? Depends on where you live and how much money you have which will enable jalan48 May 2022 #23
Some of us are obliged to live on in the wreckage Sympthsical May 2022 #22
Well, a million of us in this country died because of a virus in the past MineralMan May 2022 #25
Pessimism in politics leads to voting for crazy "outsiders" like trump... Wounded Bear May 2022 #24
Yes. You get it. MineralMan May 2022 #26
Both optimism and negativism are contagious ... usonian May 2022 #28
well put, MM RussBLib May 2022 #29
Everything Elon Musk does makes me pessimistic about humanity's future. hunter May 2022 #30
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