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Pobeka

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10. Some "street" people are also just con artists.

Thu Jul 28, 2022, 10:27 AM

Jul 2022

Many years ago we watched a woman get out of a very new, very expensive SUV with sign asking for money, god bless, etc and head for the corner and start panhandling. Another member of the vehicle got out and headed for the shopping strip, which was a higher end strip. It was very disgusting, particularly when we are driving a vehicle that is 20 years old, saving our dimes to help fund our children's education.

We never give to a panhandler. Always to food kitchens and the like. It may be a little robbing Peter to pay Paul, but at least the $ we give goes directly towards food for the very poor or homeless.

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what would you do-how would you feel if you donated money to someone believing they were in need [View all] demtenjeep Jul 2022 OP

Get your money back. Meadowoak Jul 2022 #1

Conflicted robodruid1 Jul 2022 #2

You gave freely MuseRider Jul 2022 #3

I think the angst is because of the language used Thtwudbeme Jul 2022 #32

I got the impression the poster was taking the path of least resistance. shrike3 Jul 2022 #36

Not abusive towards people donating Thtwudbeme Jul 2022 #39

I did not pick that up, no. But you may be right. We have no way of knowing. shrike3 Jul 2022 #42

Agreed. But the poster doesn't sound like he has a network at all- Thtwudbeme Jul 2022 #46

Yes, I know he doesn't. He made that clear. shrike3 Jul 2022 #48

Yeah, I'm not going to worry it if I see some homeless person I gave ten dollars to... hunter Jul 2022 #49

It's not up to me to determine another's needs leftstreet Jul 2022 #4

Exactly. n/t shrike3 Jul 2022 #5

"Nobody needs an AR/15" Shrek Jul 2022 #38

Have you been donating money to people who think they "need" guns? hunter Jul 2022 #51

I was responding to the notion in post 4 Shrek Jul 2022 #52

When I give someone money, that money no longer belongs to me. MerryBlooms Jul 2022 #6

Bingo. PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2022 #31

Everybody with a heart has been used arlyellowdog Jul 2022 #7

Is this about a DU member? Ptah Jul 2022 #8

Of course n/t shrike3 Jul 2022 #11

I take it DakotaSnow Jul 2022 #13

Let it go. Ocelot II Jul 2022 #9

Some "street" people are also just con artists. Pobeka Jul 2022 #10

Don't change yourself as a reaction. blm Jul 2022 #12

How do you know they have a half-million dollar house? shrike3 Jul 2022 #14

Just fucking stop. demmiblue Jul 2022 #15

I would report it to the fundraiser site as fraud obamanut2012 Jul 2022 #16

I do feel stupid demtenjeep Jul 2022 #17

most of my middle class neighborhood has houses valued at 500k bigtree Jul 2022 #18

I would accept it as a lesson and move on. Chainfire Jul 2022 #19

Was a scam from go greenjar_01 Jul 2022 #20

I don't know but I wouldn't complain about it in General. n/t eShirl Jul 2022 #21

Two true stories ..... H2O Man Jul 2022 #22

This message was self-deleted by its author shrike3 Jul 2022 #23

I don't do purity tests when I donate Tree-Hugger Jul 2022 #24

Agree with all your points. shrike3 Jul 2022 #25

The only thing that would really bother me are the cigarettes. ShazzieB Jul 2022 #26

I quit smoking 9 years ago demtenjeep Jul 2022 #27

I would do what I always do, and feel the same way I always feel. LuckyCharms Jul 2022 #28

I can only tell you what I did: I started offering advice...then when it was apparent that the Thtwudbeme Jul 2022 #29

Happened to me when I as 19. tavernier Jul 2022 #30

Once I give money. It is up to the person I gave it too to choose how it is spent. I lived Demsrule86 Jul 2022 #33

Some internet wisdom that always struck me as profound genxlib Jul 2022 #34

I would feel conned. Emile Jul 2022 #35

I would passive aggressively post about it on a message board. nt LexVegas Jul 2022 #37

I'd just write it off to experience. MineralMan Jul 2022 #40

I believe if I give a gift, the giftee has every right to do as they please Lettuce Be Jul 2022 #41

Once is not that problematic Chautauquas Jul 2022 #43

If I give someone money, I have no expectation of getting it back... SKKY Jul 2022 #44

You were charitable to someone not deserving charity. Live and learn. n/t FSogol Jul 2022 #45

caveat emptor SYFROYH Jul 2022 #47

I'm a sucker for anybody that asks. I give money freely. Except one woman who would hang outside Solomon Jul 2022 #50

My parents had more children than they could comfortably support. hunter Jul 2022 #53

I donated to the individual in a previous GFM, but haven't since. ARPad95 Jul 2022 #54

*LOCKING* Spazito Jul 2022 #55