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In reply to the discussion: Six years of avoiding the subject with my family. [View all]calimary
(90,039 posts)52. Damn... so sorry to hear. I'm so sorry this has torn up your family.
Im glad we all have this crazy place where we can vent in safety, knowing well find validation and consolation.
Yeah, its your parents. I had conflict with both of mine. They encouraged me to be an independent thinker but then didnt approve of where my thoughts took me.
I know its hard. I know it hurts. And I know you want to stay classy and above it all for the sake of keeping the peace.
Just know this: its safe to vent and share and talk through stuff here. There probably are more adult children struggling with this kind of issue with their parents - here. Theres a lot of sympathy and kindness and non-judgmentalism here. Lots of support here. Avail yourself of it. And it really does make a difference.
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I'm sorry..both my parents are dead and I've disowned my only 2 siblings for their
samnsara
Aug 2022
#5
If she won't change on her own, there's nothing to be done about it. Just tell yourself no one's
Karadeniz
Aug 2022
#17
so sorry sweetie. i have GOPig relatives too. My younger sister and 3 of her 4 kids & spouses
Trueblue1968
Aug 2022
#22
Congrats to your daughter! How wonderful and so glad she has/will feel a sense of relief!
MLAA
Aug 2022
#23
It really is and has worked extremely well to divide us. Autocrat model. Never thought here.
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2022
#41
It really is and has worked extremely well to divide us. Autocrat model. Never thought here.
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2022
#42
that jerk split families , sisters . mothers and fathers sons and daughters and down the line
AllaN01Bear
Aug 2022
#31
A steady diet of Faux News and/ or hate radio does it all the time. Doesn't matter how old you are.
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2022
#43
My heart goes out to you on your Mom's reaction. But by far the most important detail of
SWBTATTReg
Aug 2022
#44
She's 80+. Leave her to her ideas. You can still celebrate your daughters good fortune. I don't
Pisces
Aug 2022
#50
That's tough. I'm sorry. But, I'm very happy for your daughter. Hope your mom comes around.
Joinfortmill
Aug 2022
#53