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In reply to the discussion: Having a hard time here [View all]

calimary

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56. Hey, ybbor! It's good that you've posted this.
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 03:36 AM
Jan 2023

Many of us have mighty big shoulders here, but we’re not all-seeing and all-knowing as much as many of us would like to be.

That’s why it’s good that you’ve shared this. Please know there are some truly wonderful souls on here. Quite a few of us limped, or stumbled, or groped our way to this sanctuary after GOP victories of various times. And the same for those of us sitting up, awake into the wee hours, after a calamity or death of a loved one, and can’t get to sleep, and we find our way here (I’ve certainly been there). And it’s a beacon at the entrance to a safe harbor for sure.

I hope you stick around. And I hope you avail yourself of some of the wisdom and sympathy, and genuine empathy here. I love quoting DU’s own treasure, Skittles, who once posted that “someone’s always here.” I saw that message awhile back when I was in a moody place and it was such a comfort just reading those words! Just those three words! That was enough to remind myself that no one’s really alone if they’re part of DU.

Someone’s always here. Someone’s always awake. Someone’s always checking in, posting, sharing, commiserating, ready to listen and understand, and there’s a world of wisdom and expertise here that can be tremendously helpful. It’s a big crazy family.

And that’s where YOU are, ybbor. You’re here and you’re part of us and you don’t need to feel quite so alone or isolated. Someone’s always here. From anywhere, in any time zone, at any point on the compass or the clock. And someone’s very likely to be able to say something or share something that will broaden your understanding, sit with you and share, and maybe even help heal your heart.

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Having a hard time here [View all] ybbor Jan 2023 OP
You have friends here. Please feel free to post as much as you want. We will listen. Ocelot II Jan 2023 #1
you may want to move your post mercuryblues Jan 2023 #2
I didn't know that existed ybbor Jan 2023 #3
me either mercuryblues Jan 2023 #6
There isn't a move function but you can repost there. Ocelot II Jan 2023 #10
Just copy and paste. niyad Jan 2023 #28
Or start hanging out in the "Loners" group. KS Toronado Jan 2023 #33
I love the gif ybbor Jan 2023 #49
If you need to talk with someone who can help nvme Jan 2023 #52
See? Learn something new every day! calimary Jan 2023 #57
I'm so glad you posted and are making friends with others Hortensis Jan 2023 #71
Hang In There SoCalDavidS Jan 2023 #4
Thanks ybbor Jan 2023 #5
You do have friends here, ybbor. brer cat Jan 2023 #7
Have you tried doing something for the benefit of others? vlyons Jan 2023 #8
I was a high school teacher for 8 years ybbor Jan 2023 #38
that is actually very good advice and helpful nightwing1240 Jan 2023 #75
There are so many amazing people here. We will listen. onecaliberal Jan 2023 #9
So good that you can communicate how you are people Jan 2023 #11
Can you tell us about your daughter? 3catwoman3 Jan 2023 #12
She's incredible ybbor Jan 2023 #16
I bet she is loving being your chauffeur! Hope22 Jan 2023 #31
What state do you live in? ret5hd Jan 2023 #13
I live in Ann Arbor, MI ybbor Jan 2023 #36
I think part of the problem might be ecstatic Jan 2023 #42
You just reminded me of me of my favorite quips. calimary Jan 2023 #59
European vacations are a kind of conspicuous consumption. hay rick Jan 2023 #44
Hey I_UndergroundPanther Jan 2023 #14
I really appreciate your reply! ybbor Jan 2023 #40
I'm glad you shared this instead of going it alone Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #15
Inwish you the best! I hope.. Happy Hoosier Jan 2023 #17
Yale is offering free "Science of Well Being" course SheltieLover Jan 2023 #18
Ok, old gal here.. Joinfortmill Jan 2023 #19
I really liked this advice above for you, ybbor Jarqui Jan 2023 #77
I'm reading your post and the only difference between you n me Deuxcents Jan 2023 #20
You are very brave ybbor Jan 2023 #41
Happy New Year ybbor..look, you have a great daughter..so from the greatness asiliveandbreathe Jan 2023 #21
I love Siwsan's posts ybbor Jan 2023 #47
That right there is what I am talking about.."I love Siwsan's posts" asiliveandbreathe Jan 2023 #51
Not to be too simplistic.... rubbersole Jan 2023 #67
I didn't know something happened to Carys. peacebuzzard Jan 2023 #70
Just so you don't worry - Carys got spayed without complications... 3catwoman3 Jan 2023 #78
That is what I figured ybbor Jan 2023 #85
Siwsan has the ideal pack of cats peacebuzzard Jan 2023 #92
We all cycle through life with highs and lows. Bluethroughu Jan 2023 #22
Depression sucks but it passes. I wish you the gift live love laugh Jan 2023 #23
After all the wise and insightful posts above, I can only add reassurances that you are not alone. alwaysinasnit Jan 2023 #24
This is a community. You are a part of it. We care. TygrBright Jan 2023 #25
I wish I had some words that might help. But do know that you have a whole niyad Jan 2023 #26
You didn't ask for advice, but I'm going to give some. WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2023 #27
Been there. Shitty marriage, wonderful kids. Take care of yourself. And find Gaugamela Jan 2023 #29
I know one thing grantcart Jan 2023 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author Tbear Jan 2023 #32
We all have so much in common. You are among friends. usonian Jan 2023 #34
I wish someone here would start a zoom room to be open at whatever times you want Maraya1969 Jan 2023 #35
That BeerBarrelPolka Jan 2023 #64
ybbor, might I offer some help MagickMuffin Jan 2023 #37
Dear Ybbor Bayard Jan 2023 #39
I am sitting here with my Rosie and Murphyb849 Jan 2023 #43
Thank you ybbor Jan 2023 #54
I'm not sure you all will see this, but ybbor Jan 2023 #45
Please BeerBarrelPolka Jan 2023 #65
Hugs to you Meowmee Jan 2023 #46
My daughter and I do share my interests ybbor Jan 2023 #48
Aww that is great! Meowmee Jan 2023 #73
Become an employee catchnrelease Jan 2023 #89
I'm sorry life is difficult right now cate94 Jan 2023 #50
Sounds like the depression meds need to be adjusted. Tell your doctor what all you patricia92243 Jan 2023 #53
Was going to suggest this. Better living with chemistry is out there Arazi Jan 2023 #69
You have great courage to share your journey with us.. Permanut Jan 2023 #55
Hey, ybbor! It's good that you've posted this. calimary Jan 2023 #56
The Most Important Thing I've Learned to Manage my Depression cactusdave Jan 2023 #58
Great advice and good for you! nightwing1240 Jan 2023 #81
You need to talk to your wife Genki Hikari Jan 2023 #60
This message was self-deleted by its author cally Jan 2023 #94
If you can't afford to pay for travel abroad, it sounds like you have valuable skills that could get diva77 Jan 2023 #61
So sorry that you struggle with depression. rainy Jan 2023 #62
... markie Jan 2023 #63
I was in a situation like that up until a few years ago Victor_c3 Jan 2023 #66
I hear you, and many others here do too. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #68
My suggestion: find out if there is a Sierra Club in Ann Arbor FakeNoose Jan 2023 #72
My house burned down Thursday night... druidity33 Jan 2023 #74
Oh my gosh! ybbor Jan 2023 #87
Everyone is okay... druidity33 Jan 2023 #91
Oh no!! I'm so sorry cally Jan 2023 #93
I'm living in a hotel... druidity33 Jan 2023 #97
I am so glad you have support around you cally Jan 2023 #98
I'm with you, brother PJMcK Jan 2023 #76
Your post tells us you want to get better. TNNurse Jan 2023 #79
For What It's Worth P-Nutt Jan 2023 #80
I too am lonely and have some of your issues jimlup Jan 2023 #82
kick for more exposure. Find a place to volunteer to put you in the company of others BlueWaveNeverEnd Jan 2023 #83
Ybbor. I'm sorry you're feeling so down. Beacool Jan 2023 #84
Some ideas IbogaProject Jan 2023 #86
Hey, I used to live in Ann Arbor! Wednesdays Jan 2023 #88
Do what you enjoy or try something new on your own catchnrelease Jan 2023 #90
Keep going out to hear music, hike and camp, and have a drink. SYFROYH Jan 2023 #95
It's that time of year when all the bad things past and present seem to dominate the mind. Vinca Jan 2023 #96
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