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H2O Man

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4. Very interesting!
Tue Jan 17, 2023, 08:43 PM
Jan 2023

First of all, thank you for your response. And I promise not to go on and on in my response, although there are so many important points you raise.

Per the door ..... obviously, I don't know the answer ..... but I do know that stalkers who focus on terrifying their victims will do things like leaving a door ajar and/or opening a window, to demonstrate that they have the ability to strike when they know you are not home. A related tactic for late night intruders, when the residents are asleep, is to move some furniture. Thus, even if you might have left it that way, there is no valid reason for the police to have not responded.

I agree the Idaho murderer has psychopathic features. His history suggests that it is a real possibility, even a likelihood, that this is the correct diagnosis. Yet there is another potential possibility ..... it is possible that he has two other diagnoses that, at times, not only can mimic psychopathy, but have a curious history of being in play when a killer prefers a knife to a gun. I have discussed this with a few people who are not on DU, but hesitate to do so here ..... lots of very good people have one or both of those conditions, and pose zero danger to family, friends, or the public at large.

One of my friends I talked to about that reads my posts on DU. She reminded me to tell people to always be aware of their surroundings. In the past, I've mentioned that in the context of situations like pulling into a grocery store's parking lot, as there are maga types with chips on their shoulders. It's something that I taught my kids to do since they were young. Not to be paranoid, but to be alert and aware.

Again, thank you!

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Stalking [View all] H2O Man Jan 2023 OP
So terrifying to think of those poor girls knowing there was someone stalking Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #1
Thank you! H2O Man Jan 2023 #3
No nightmare! Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #9
That's good! H2O Man Jan 2023 #12
Maybe it is posted elsewhere in the thread Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #26
All great points H2O Man. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #2
Very interesting! H2O Man Jan 2023 #4
Again YOU raise excellent points. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #5
Thank you! H2O Man Jan 2023 #13
I hope you're okay! MontanaMama Jan 2023 #21
Thanks! H2O Man Jan 2023 #23
Golly I had the same experience Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #11
Long ago, H2O Man Jan 2023 #15
Wow. Your post gave me chills, Saoirse. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #20
My stalker used my nickname Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #27
I relayed your post to my husband just now... MontanaMama Jan 2023 #29
So creepy isn't it? Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #30
I'm not convinced this was stalking Warpy Jan 2023 #6
Stalking is a behavior, H2O Man Jan 2023 #8
Again, we disasgree Warpy Jan 2023 #14
I don't think we disagree on that much. H2O Man Jan 2023 #16
I was stalked by my first husband when I left him. wnylib Jan 2023 #7
That's a good example H2O Man Jan 2023 #10
Thanks, H2O Man. There were several other wnylib Jan 2023 #17
Once again, you raise H2O Man Jan 2023 #18
In my case, I was too afraid to not seek support. wnylib Jan 2023 #19
That is great to hear! H2O Man Jan 2023 #22
When in a threatening situation, take advantage wnylib Jan 2023 #24
I believe in clear communication. H2O Man Jan 2023 #25
That's quite a situation to be in. wnylib Jan 2023 #28
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