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H2O Man

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13. Thank you!
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 12:16 PM
Jan 2023

I had an "early night" last night. I had taken the dog out after dark, and I fell hard on the ice, and was pretty darned sore. Indeed, I experienced trouble getting back to my feet, and will say that having an excited dog dancing on me was not helpful! Ha!

Any how, as I was laying down inside the house -- with the dog comfortably resting on my feet -- I was thinking about this topic. And about our conversation about you door. About how these types of things are forms of psychological manipulation -- also known as mental torture, at least in my book -- where the victim tends to doubt themselves, even to the point where they think others will consider them confused or paranoid if they say what they think. An example could be the police failure to respond to a call about an ahar door.

Now, I'm old. I've heard my kids who are social workers talk about "gas lighting." I can't remember if I ever heard that back in the days that I was employed. But when I was laying there, thinking about this, I thought it applied. So I got up and habbled to my computer, and looked up "gas lighting." It makes getting older more fun when you learn something new every day!

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Stalking [View all] H2O Man Jan 2023 OP
So terrifying to think of those poor girls knowing there was someone stalking Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #1
Thank you! H2O Man Jan 2023 #3
No nightmare! Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #9
That's good! H2O Man Jan 2023 #12
Maybe it is posted elsewhere in the thread Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #26
All great points H2O Man. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #2
Very interesting! H2O Man Jan 2023 #4
Again YOU raise excellent points. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #5
Thank you! H2O Man Jan 2023 #13
I hope you're okay! MontanaMama Jan 2023 #21
Thanks! H2O Man Jan 2023 #23
Golly I had the same experience Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #11
Long ago, H2O Man Jan 2023 #15
Wow. Your post gave me chills, Saoirse. MontanaMama Jan 2023 #20
My stalker used my nickname Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #27
I relayed your post to my husband just now... MontanaMama Jan 2023 #29
So creepy isn't it? Saoirse9 Jan 2023 #30
I'm not convinced this was stalking Warpy Jan 2023 #6
Stalking is a behavior, H2O Man Jan 2023 #8
Again, we disasgree Warpy Jan 2023 #14
I don't think we disagree on that much. H2O Man Jan 2023 #16
I was stalked by my first husband when I left him. wnylib Jan 2023 #7
That's a good example H2O Man Jan 2023 #10
Thanks, H2O Man. There were several other wnylib Jan 2023 #17
Once again, you raise H2O Man Jan 2023 #18
In my case, I was too afraid to not seek support. wnylib Jan 2023 #19
That is great to hear! H2O Man Jan 2023 #22
When in a threatening situation, take advantage wnylib Jan 2023 #24
I believe in clear communication. H2O Man Jan 2023 #25
That's quite a situation to be in. wnylib Jan 2023 #28
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