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Bernardo de La Paz

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13. You miss that it's Care-shaming. She took care of herself, not suffering from malnutrition or hunger

Fri Mar 10, 2023, 08:45 AM

Mar 2023

Care shaming because of the comparison between her obvious lack-of-starvation and her children's starvation.

Emile's post #5, that you responded to, made that explicit with the phrase "missed many meals". Read it again. She obviously didn't miss meals but her children did.

It's about missed meals! You are the one to think it was about being fat!

How about waiting until actual fat-shaming occurs?

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a Texas mother left her kids (age 12 and 3) home alone for 7 weeks. [View all] BlueWaveNeverEnd Mar 2023 OP

Throw away the keys malaise Mar 2023 #1

+1000. (nt) Paladin Mar 2023 #12

For sure! nt pazzyanne Mar 2023 #31

Jesus Dorian Gray Mar 2023 #2

WTF? She looks happy and proud of herself! tblue37 Mar 2023 #3

Yes. This is the most enraging photo I could imagine of this wretched woman. hlthe2b Mar 2023 #4

She Looks RobinA Mar 2023 #38

I hope her kids show her the photo when she Ilsa Mar 2023 #56

This message was self-deleted by its author Emile Mar 2023 #5

Really? Not nice to fat shame, no matter the circumstances. phylny Mar 2023 #6

Really, I wasn't fat shaming! Emile Mar 2023 #7

While I don't like fat shaming... radical noodle Mar 2023 #21

The last thing I was doing was fat shaming this woman. I self deleted Emile Mar 2023 #29

Oh come on.... do we REALLY have to go down this "fat shaming" road every time Goodheart Mar 2023 #8

Really, we do. phylny Mar 2023 #9

No,, we don't. Ray Bruns Mar 2023 #11

No, we don't. Goodheart Mar 2023 #16

This message was self-deleted by its author Ray Bruns Mar 2023 #17

You miss that it's Care-shaming. She took care of herself, not suffering from malnutrition or hunger Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2023 #13

I didn't miss anything. phylny Mar 2023 #15

I don't know about your condition or history, but you are overly sensitive and have made a problem Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2023 #18

its a common fat shaming slur - best avoid the slur lest one draw deserved ire. Blues Heron Mar 2023 #22

Thank you, you have explained it well. phylny Mar 2023 #24

No, I'm not, but thank you for telling me how I should feel and react. phylny Mar 2023 #23

"She asked about putting lipstick on before the photo was taken" dalton99a Mar 2023 #10

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and suggest maybe drugs were involved Bucky Mar 2023 #14

More from the culture of denial NJCher Mar 2023 #19

What narcissist does this sound like? NJCher Mar 2023 #20

Actually, lots of people PJMcK Mar 2023 #36

it's actually a brain problem NJCher Mar 2023 #45

The Forced Birth State Traildogbob Mar 2023 #25

The forced birth state? forthemiddle Mar 2023 #28

Really? edisdead Mar 2023 #30

EXACTLY!!! secondwind Mar 2023 #32

And who knows if... 2naSalit Mar 2023 #37

Thank you. Traildogbob Mar 2023 #40

x1000 judesedit Mar 2023 #42

Might as well let it go. Paladin Mar 2023 #33

Lol. ecstatic Mar 2023 #41

I was born, raised, and live in Texas LostOne4Ever Mar 2023 #53

Whatever makes you happy, I guess. Paladin Mar 2023 #57

+1 n/t area51 Mar 2023 #60

Perhaps a psych evaluation would be in order here. 2naSalit Mar 2023 #26

I agree that a psych eval is in order. Her actions, and apparent thinking, are not niyad Mar 2023 #34

I have a family in law that this happened to when he was 5! flying_wahini Mar 2023 #27

How unutterably sad. Thank you for your kindness to him. How is he doing? niyad Mar 2023 #35

Oh he is a 60 ur old man who is very sensitive and sweet. flying_wahini Mar 2023 #44

That is just wonderful. niyad Mar 2023 #47

A number of questions here. The children had access to a phone, and could niyad Mar 2023 #39

How will the kids ever trust an adult again? DFW Mar 2023 #43

Pretty sure this is the same person jcgoldie Mar 2023 #46

Yeah, probably not. Lancero Mar 2023 #50

Exact same middle name jcgoldie Mar 2023 #51

She was 22 inthewind21 Mar 2023 #52

It is the same person jcgoldie Mar 2023 #54

How'd it take a month for dad to figure out something was up? Lancero Mar 2023 #48

Because The Dads RobinA Mar 2023 #49

This. Why did he not take more responsibility? JudyM Mar 2023 #58

Yes. It's the man's fault Alpeduez21 Mar 2023 #59

Sorry this touched a nerve with you JudyM Mar 2023 #61

Totally disgusting, and her self-satisfied grin makes Sogo Mar 2023 #55