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pnwmom

(110,237 posts)
7. That's awful! I'm sorry you had to be subjected to that.
Sun Mar 26, 2023, 03:41 PM
Mar 2023

I didn't expect my period in 6th grade, even though we'd learned about them in a few weeks of instruction at school. My mother had told us she didn't start till she was 15, so I thought I had plenty of time.

It wasn't really my mother's fault, but when I got my first period a few weeks before my 12th birthday I was too embarrassed to tell her. For that first summer I just used lots of folded up toilet paper! And I put a bloody pair of underwear into a plastic bag and put it on a closet shelf. Months later, I retrieved the bag . . . and the contents had gotten moldy. I put it in the garbage can outside.

When it was time to go back to school in September I finally got up the courage to tell my mother and she was fine, like most mothers are. And I had real pads from then on -- not toilet paper.

But remembering how embarrassed I'd been about the whole thing, I got so mad about the proposed law in Florida. Many girls get their periods in elementary school, and this is so unfair to them.

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That attempt in Florida to restrict teaching about a basic bodily function MineralMan Mar 2023 #1
Ignorance is bliss - for those that hold power. erronis Mar 2023 #10
Yes. Cruel in the extreme. Hekate Mar 2023 #13
Yup. Exactly. MineralMan Mar 2023 #18
K&R. Bookmarked. nt Ilsa Mar 2023 #2
What an amazing man. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2023 #3
yes. a saint BlueWaveNeverEnd Mar 2023 #15
K&R Solly Mack Mar 2023 #4
It did not lead to suicide, obviously, but I too was Backseat Driver Mar 2023 #5
That's awful! I'm sorry you had to be subjected to that. pnwmom Mar 2023 #7
I was one of those 6th graders...I knew enough to Backseat Driver Mar 2023 #8
I got my first one when I was 10, in 5th grade, and on a school field trip. meadowlander Mar 2023 #28
Thank goodness you were wearing dark pants that day! That situation could have been so pnwmom Mar 2023 #29
In 7th grade, a good friend of mine wore a white skirt to school. CrispyQ Mar 2023 #33
Oh, yes, I remember trying to dispose of those sanitary napkins when I was 12. CTyankee Mar 2023 #9
Remember the Kotex dispensers in the restroom at school? Marthe48 Mar 2023 #11
I had never been told about menstruation by my mother, but I had some sort japple Mar 2023 #12
Thank you Delphinus Mar 2023 #6
Since we're talking about it Marthe48 Mar 2023 #14
my late mom was blacklisted 40s 50s as she took the first sex ed class AllaN01Bear Mar 2023 #16
I always felt sorry for girls dealing with periods. Haggard Celine Mar 2023 #17
Another Mom story chowmama Mar 2023 #19
As a 10 year old boy, I was curious about everything. MineralMan Mar 2023 #22
I love this story! Unwind Your Mind Mar 2023 #30
and now for something completely different... Ligyron Mar 2023 #20
The RW has become Christo-fascists. Election deniers, book banners/burners, anti-women rights, vote Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #21
My mother thought she was dying when it happened to her Warpy Mar 2023 #23
Kudos to your mother! Rhiannon12866 Mar 2023 #25
She got threatening phone calls for it in the 50s Warpy Mar 2023 #31
Thank God my wife and I talked to our daughter about periods before she had hers NickB79 Mar 2023 #24
Ugh, these poor girls. róisín_dubh Mar 2023 #26
My father was a doctor pfitz59 Mar 2023 #27
One of my favorite moments in golf... appmanga Mar 2023 #32
Thankfully, I had parents who gave me books with accurate info Withywindle Mar 2023 #34
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