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chillfactor

(7,694 posts)
19. You are a dear Eko.
Sat Aug 5, 2023, 11:36 PM
Aug 2023

I am so sorry for the problems of your friend but I clearly understand.

I am 81, disabled, and homebound. My everyday world is wrapped around my phone, tv, and laptop in order to stay connected to the outside world. I have social security
but, believe me, living on social security is a day-to-day struggle.

Like the person in your post, I have applied, applied, and applied for government assistance but been turned down time and time again because my social security is from $100-$200 over the limit for any kind of aid.

Recently my state gave tax refunds to the taxpayers. They also had a program for people like me who don't make enough money to pay taxes so I applied. I was thrilled to be a recipient of $500 that I was going to use to help me pay for propane over the winter. A hacker stole my money from my debit card. The card company and their asshat bank have stonewalled me and have been no help in getting my money back. In desperation I started a GoFundMe account and posted it on my neighborhood website.....which was a big mistake, I got called a scammer and a thief and my address was posted on the site. Some people harassed me every day.

Not all people are turds. One very kind gentleman filled my propane tank. And a wonderful lady gave me a lead for help. I have a case worker coming within the next week to visit with me and access my needs. Hopefully I can get some help as it is very difficult for me to get around to make meals or do the laundry.

I have dear neighbors, a husband and wife, who do my running for me. They pick up groceries and my mail for me and stop to visit because they know I get lonely. So among the asshats in the world, there are some really wonderful people.

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What's their sagetea Aug 2023 #1
Here you go. Eko Aug 2023 #2
Thanks, kicked in a bit. This is heartbreaking. MLAA Aug 2023 #5
I can do another op. Eko Aug 2023 #8
I saw and answered the Asher call yesterday but somehow missed the other one. MLAA Aug 2023 #10
Ughhh, more typing. Eko Aug 2023 #11
Cut and paste, dear Eko, cut and paste! MLAA Aug 2023 #12
That didnt work ha ha ha. Eko Aug 2023 #13
I'm glad you posted it again. I didn't see it before this thread. Maraya1969 Aug 2023 #46
Same here! Looks like DU has made a big difference! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2023 #47
Thanks. Donation sent. ancianita Aug 2023 #15
I have reflected upon this as well intrepidity Aug 2023 #3
Someone should do a comedy short skit about this. Eko Aug 2023 #4
We would be a better society if we had a swifter, more wide ranging emergency response electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #23
Oh, I am a serious introvert. Pandemic lockdown was heaven! intrepidity Aug 2023 #37
I know you say you don't want help re: disability, but one of my housemates just went through this MiniMe Aug 2023 #6
Social Security timms139 Aug 2023 #16
How awful!!! For her mom, and you! electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #24
Thanks. Her mom is 83 so this has been really rough on her MiniMe Aug 2023 #36
There its no guarantee to help the pups PlutosHeart Aug 2023 #7
Not sure of the state, but it is out west. Eko Aug 2023 #9
Getting evicted over too high of rent? Or ? nt TeamProg Aug 2023 #14
Has anyone spoken to the local CIL (center for independent living)? 1WorldHope Aug 2023 #17
Awful. Perhaps he could find someone who needs a roommate, or just has a room to rent? Liberty Belle Aug 2023 #18
You are a dear Eko. chillfactor Aug 2023 #19
Ya, my Dad lived in a southen state that didnt go for the ACA. Eko Aug 2023 #21
😔 Horrific electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #25
Yeah, it was and is. Eko Aug 2023 #29
I have not had to deal w that medical issue, but reading, and hearing the stories of people who did. electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #32
Oh my God that is insane. mahina Aug 2023 #28
I'm glad you have good people to help you. electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #27
K&R stage left Aug 2023 #20
Thanks, Eko Aug 2023 #22
Catholic Charities helps with homelessness prevention mahina Aug 2023 #26
donated to the gofundme... hope it helps lapfog_1 Aug 2023 #30
America is a rich country that tolerates or ignores avoidable poverty and misery. hay rick Aug 2023 #31
Truly wish I could help, but am hanging on myself judesedit Aug 2023 #33
This country treats the elderly as disposable waste not fooled Aug 2023 #34
What a marvelous heartfelt post. chillfactor Aug 2023 #35
Absolutely. Credit to the author, Umair Haque not fooled Aug 2023 #40
Unfortunately that plays out way to often in this Country. William769 Aug 2023 #38
Morning kick Arazi Aug 2023 #39
Just a reminder, We the People ARE this country. Hortensis Aug 2023 #41
I just found out about this service this week scipan Aug 2023 #42
Thanks, I shared it with him. Eko Aug 2023 #44
Really hope it helps! scipan Aug 2023 #45
All the best to your friend, nobody should have to appalachiablue Aug 2023 #43
K&R! Great job, DU! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2023 #48
I'm sorry for your friend's troubles. SYFROYH Aug 2023 #49
I just wanted to kick this up again Iris Aug 2023 #50
Thanks!! Eko Aug 2023 #51
Kick for Ted, I hope things improve for him & pooches. appalachiablue Sep 2023 #52
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