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electric_blue68

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23. We would be a better society if we had a swifter, more wide ranging emergency response
Sun Aug 6, 2023, 12:23 AM
Aug 2023

...to situations like this. And not the situations of scary stories you hear about shelters.

Occasionally I've seen interesting FB articles on small semi-temporary housing unit for a single person set up in different countries.
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But as to

"I guess the honest truth is that we humans often find animals to be better companions/friends than humans..."

I just wonder sometimes what kind ?nasty people (a general) you keep running into your (depending) neighborhood, small town, school, workplace etc that make you feel this way?

Can it sometimes be an aspect of serious Introvertism? I have only had one genuinely Introvert friend over the past 15+ yrs (I'm 70 ). Learned what it can be like for her (plenty of articles she's sent me! ). I'm an ambivert, but more on the extrovert side. Pandemic lockdown became more difficult each warm weather return as I really missed the energy of being out on the streets of NYC! (not a crushing crowd, though 😯 )

Can it be the interests, and possibly personality aspects that may not -fit- in a certain area?

I have had a few different nasty types of interpersonal experiences. Snobby girl clique in 4th - 6th grade, but also Artistically talented like myself.
An -incompetent- roommate who still was bringing home strange men to help her with the getting the building, and apt door open. A roommate who turned verbally, and physically abusive while I struggled to get out of there after it didn't stop, and got worse (it's complex).Only if I showed up with bruuses, or serious cuts could something be done

So I've experienced nasty, and (while not the worst) real nasty & scary!

Usually my experiences with people are nuetral to quite friendly. I have a range of shorter, medium, long, and very long friendships. Along with a bunch of people between long good acquaintences to friendships. And still making new acquaintences that sone might turn into friendships as I somewhat reccently moved.

I really hope these thoughts, questions, hypothesises haven't offended anyone (not my intention! ). I wouldn't be considered a typical "average" person either in certain positive, and probably a bit negative in a couple of ways. Wouldn't hold myself as a paragon of virture. Do my best to be thoughtful, considerate, kind, as I was taught. Playful, and funny.

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What's their sagetea Aug 2023 #1
Here you go. Eko Aug 2023 #2
Thanks, kicked in a bit. This is heartbreaking. MLAA Aug 2023 #5
I can do another op. Eko Aug 2023 #8
I saw and answered the Asher call yesterday but somehow missed the other one. MLAA Aug 2023 #10
Ughhh, more typing. Eko Aug 2023 #11
Cut and paste, dear Eko, cut and paste! MLAA Aug 2023 #12
That didnt work ha ha ha. Eko Aug 2023 #13
I'm glad you posted it again. I didn't see it before this thread. Maraya1969 Aug 2023 #46
Same here! Looks like DU has made a big difference! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2023 #47
Thanks. Donation sent. ancianita Aug 2023 #15
I have reflected upon this as well intrepidity Aug 2023 #3
Someone should do a comedy short skit about this. Eko Aug 2023 #4
We would be a better society if we had a swifter, more wide ranging emergency response electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #23
Oh, I am a serious introvert. Pandemic lockdown was heaven! intrepidity Aug 2023 #37
I know you say you don't want help re: disability, but one of my housemates just went through this MiniMe Aug 2023 #6
Social Security timms139 Aug 2023 #16
How awful!!! For her mom, and you! electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #24
Thanks. Her mom is 83 so this has been really rough on her MiniMe Aug 2023 #36
There its no guarantee to help the pups PlutosHeart Aug 2023 #7
Not sure of the state, but it is out west. Eko Aug 2023 #9
Getting evicted over too high of rent? Or ? nt TeamProg Aug 2023 #14
Has anyone spoken to the local CIL (center for independent living)? 1WorldHope Aug 2023 #17
Awful. Perhaps he could find someone who needs a roommate, or just has a room to rent? Liberty Belle Aug 2023 #18
You are a dear Eko. chillfactor Aug 2023 #19
Ya, my Dad lived in a southen state that didnt go for the ACA. Eko Aug 2023 #21
😔 Horrific electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #25
Yeah, it was and is. Eko Aug 2023 #29
I have not had to deal w that medical issue, but reading, and hearing the stories of people who did. electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #32
Oh my God that is insane. mahina Aug 2023 #28
I'm glad you have good people to help you. electric_blue68 Aug 2023 #27
K&R stage left Aug 2023 #20
Thanks, Eko Aug 2023 #22
Catholic Charities helps with homelessness prevention mahina Aug 2023 #26
donated to the gofundme... hope it helps lapfog_1 Aug 2023 #30
America is a rich country that tolerates or ignores avoidable poverty and misery. hay rick Aug 2023 #31
Truly wish I could help, but am hanging on myself judesedit Aug 2023 #33
This country treats the elderly as disposable waste not fooled Aug 2023 #34
What a marvelous heartfelt post. chillfactor Aug 2023 #35
Absolutely. Credit to the author, Umair Haque not fooled Aug 2023 #40
Unfortunately that plays out way to often in this Country. William769 Aug 2023 #38
Morning kick Arazi Aug 2023 #39
Just a reminder, We the People ARE this country. Hortensis Aug 2023 #41
I just found out about this service this week scipan Aug 2023 #42
Thanks, I shared it with him. Eko Aug 2023 #44
Really hope it helps! scipan Aug 2023 #45
All the best to your friend, nobody should have to appalachiablue Aug 2023 #43
K&R! Great job, DU! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2023 #48
I'm sorry for your friend's troubles. SYFROYH Aug 2023 #49
I just wanted to kick this up again Iris Aug 2023 #50
Thanks!! Eko Aug 2023 #51
Kick for Ted, I hope things improve for him & pooches. appalachiablue Sep 2023 #52
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