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Diamond_Dog

(40,715 posts)
26. It is nothing short of sinful
Tue Sep 12, 2023, 08:17 PM
Sep 2023

How Catholic wives and women were treated back in those days. I’m sorry your mom went through all that, Hecate. Church didn’t care whether children lost a mother in childbirth. Men could always find another wife. How didn’t your mom have a severe case of depression? The patriarchy of the church was and still is just disgusting in its attitude towards women. Sepsis, hemorrhaging to death, stillbirths, etc. It is all just “God’s Will”.

I am thinking of a good friend a few years older than myself, her mother was also a “Good Catholic” who had ten kids and a husband who had affairs with other women and drank away his paycheck. Her mother was severely depressed (Gee, I wonder why!) and they had to literally depend on charity just to eat.

When I was a kid, our neighbor lady who had 4 kids needed a hysterectomy to save her life (cancer) and the priest from our church came to the hospital to talk to her doctor without telling her. He wanted to make sure she wasn’t just using a hysterectomy as an excuse not to have more children!!!

You’re much better at expressing the true sentiment here, which is, taking away a woman’s right to determine what happens to her body is never okay. Government does not belong between a woman and her doctor, period. I feel like a broken record when I say, “If you are against abortion then don’t have one. But don’t force your religion onto others!”

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"I realize that most of DU is older men" leftstreet Sep 2023 #1
Old is relative, but yes. qwlauren35 Sep 2023 #3
I don't think that's why your post might sink leftstreet Sep 2023 #5
Actually qwlauren35 Sep 2023 #8
Banning abortion is not about cute little Gerber babies & how selfish women are for wanting to Hekate Sep 2023 #11
Preach it sister! Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #15
TY so much. I had more to say below. Hekate Sep 2023 #23
Well said! Spazito Sep 2023 #19
TY so much. I had more to say below. Hekate Sep 2023 #24
"Put the fight for abortion rights aside" leftstreet Sep 2023 #20
This is a realization I had about my Mom who was raised Catholic & never would have ... Hekate Sep 2023 #21
Lies are all the forced birthers have... Spazito Sep 2023 #25
It is nothing short of sinful Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #26
Polices that directly help people certainly have value. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2023 #2
My feeling is that Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #4
I'm one of the "old" women around here. slightlv Sep 2023 #6
"Don't be upset, little pregnant lady. Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #12
The original article qwlauren35 Sep 2023 #7
I do understand your point Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #9
It doesn't matter to me how great any program is in helping to keep Solly Mack Sep 2023 #10
They'll take away our right to vote next! Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #13
And offer us promises that amount to nothing in exchange. Solly Mack Sep 2023 #14
That's a bit harder. Elessar Zappa Sep 2023 #16
Of course I was being sarcastic Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #17
The mistake is assuming that the number of abortions *needs* to be reduced. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2023 #18
I really am sorry, but this is how much Republicans care about children & moms.... Hekate Sep 2023 #22
++++agree 100% Diamond_Dog Sep 2023 #27
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