BIL who molested me as a preteen/teen is dying [View all]

[CousinIT]

I feel badly for my dear sister but him...well I'm feeling some kind of way about that. He's a scoundrel who sucked the life out of my sister for 50+ years. I can't afford to go see her as this is happening but her children are there and my older brother will be there (he's retired - I'm not yet).

I have been calling her regularly and will continue to do so, hopefully get a Zoom chat or some such over Xmas.

Her Christmas will be a grim one, but we are all rallying around her, as is her church, which she participates in regularly as she is very religious. She's a good person but is a RWer and bigoted, sexist (ie: abortion etc) as they are. But I do feel for her losing her man of 50+ years. She is not one who likes being alone.

As for him, I don't want him to suffer either. I'd not wish that on anyone. He is getting the drugs needed to pass peacefully with her and his son/daughter around. But, I have no feeling about his passage. Indifference about that abounds, knowing what a scoundrel and bloodsucking vampire he was to her over the years. I know she's heartbroken but she may be better off without him.

I guess I'm a nasty person for that. I do love my sister though she is MAGA, she would be there for me if she could, so from a distance I'm trying to be a moral support for her as I am able.

But that scoundrel of a spouse of hers....just....emotional radio silence. The man is a dirtbag. My sister deserved MUCH BETTER.