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9. Sorry to hear. We can all learn more about mental health. Help is out there. Go for it if you need it. Please.

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Our neighbor down the street committed [View all] MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 OP

My sympathy to you, your husband and neighbors. livetohike Jan 2024 #1

MOMFUDSKI............ Upthevibe Jan 2024 #2

+1 Moms fudsy. I'm sorry about this. SoFlaBro Jan 2024 #49

"Newly retired". yagotme Jan 2024 #3

Happened to my mom Freddie Jan 2024 #6

Yup. Hope she is doing better. nt yagotme Jan 2024 #7

I'll never understand that. Retirement was the happiest day of my life. SunSeeker Jan 2024 #30

Mom had depression tendencies long before she retired Freddie Jan 2024 #42

You and me both! BobTheSubgenius Jan 2024 #57

M husbands talking retirement now and he's only 63 kimbutgar Jan 2024 #12

I retired at 50. Wife and I had plans. yagotme Jan 2024 #14

It's always best to have a plan. Although work right now is getting in the way of them. Crowman2009 Jan 2024 #25

Most of the time I spend here is on "down time". yagotme Jan 2024 #28

My grandmother worked after her 5 kids were grown. Retired and then went back to work Attilatheblond Jan 2024 #15

That's kind of how I feel kimbutgar Jan 2024 #16

I retired at 45 Farmer-Rick Jan 2024 #21

I retired at 68. pazzyanne Jan 2024 #46

My husband is like that Tree Lady Jan 2024 #33

I tried to retire Freddie Jan 2024 #43

That is what I was thinking. MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #17

Large societal/psychological change. yagotme Jan 2024 #20

If you own a house... lame54 Jan 2024 #22

Some, more than others... yagotme Jan 2024 #23

I had a 100 year old house Dave says Jan 2024 #24

100+ here. ALWAYS something... nt yagotme Jan 2024 #26

The saying goes, "The only thing... Dave says Jan 2024 #40

Yup. nt yagotme Jan 2024 #41

77 and still working tavernier Jan 2024 #29

After all the OT I worked, sometimes I FEEL like I worked to that age... yagotme Jan 2024 #31

Yes, and there are signs to look for Polybius Jan 2024 #38

Yup. Good warning signs. nt yagotme Jan 2024 #39

I'm so sorry. What a way to begin the new year. Diamond_Dog Jan 2024 #4

Heartbreaking. MLAA Jan 2024 #5

I am so very sorry to hear this. What a shocking way to start one's day. niyad Jan 2024 #8

Sorry to hear. We can all learn more about mental health. Help is out there. Go for it if you need it. Please. twodogsbarking Jan 2024 #9

How sad for your neighborhood. pandr32 Jan 2024 #10

And sometimes there aren't any signs COL Mustard Jan 2024 #11

Yes, last a friend committed suicide. He was a retired policemen who worked for SharonAnn Jan 2024 #45

I'm sorry for your loss COL Mustard Jan 2024 #56

I'm guessing he used a gun RussBLib Jan 2024 #13

Yes MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #18

And that's why I will never own one TexasBushwhacker Jan 2024 #35

It's a method that is impossible Tree Lady Jan 2024 #36

Thanks for all of your MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #19

Condolences to all who have experienced losses like this. Nt spooky3 Jan 2024 #27

Sorry for Mike and his wife and all of the neighbors including you and your husband May his memories be a blessin to debm55 Jan 2024 #32

ugh IbogaProject Jan 2024 #34

Wow. MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #37

So sad Duncanpup Jan 2024 #44

Oh so sad Demovictory9 Jan 2024 #47

All this talk of going stir crazy after retirement has me baffled SouthernDem4ever Jan 2024 #48

Sorry to hear this pfitz59 Jan 2024 #50

Terrible shock MaryMagdaline Jan 2024 #51

I support an individual's right to terminate their life. nt. Voltaire2 Jan 2024 #52

I am so sorry for Mike's wife, I am sorry for your husband and his friend and I am sorry for your pain for having to ... marble falls Jan 2024 #53

Retired males a high risk group. Irish_Dem Jan 2024 #54

I had a co-worker take his own life. sellitman Jan 2024 #55