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tpsbmam

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91. How incredibly awesome! Good for you for taking on that responsibility!
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:34 PM
Nov 2012

Yeah, you'll need help along the way -- take it from someone whose father was a mayor for a while. Doesn't matter what the size of the town/city is, there are issues and problems you'll encounter that call for backup! As for disability issues, I have a fair amount of experience dealing with it on an individual basis and coming up against the powers that be and having to fight for disability rights. I'm personally disabled and, in my current community, have had to fight some battles having to do with physical access (which I've won....so far) and have more upcoming.

It's been my experience professionally (I worked with people with a wide variety of disabilities, often by enabling people to step up and fight necessary battles for their rights, sometimes with my assistance in the background) and personally that we encounter issues, such as the "suspicion" one you mentioned, just through living and enter into those pushes for disability rights as they arise in the course of our day-to-day lives.

Sometimes, it's simply a matter of awareness. I can't tell you the number of times I've approached it as a matter of educating people. Most people probably don't know and wouldn't think of the similarities between many persons with autism & "suspicious" behavior as you've described it. I'm aware of those qualities in autism but frankly, it wouldn't have occurred to me so it took you making the link to "educate" me. See? In some cases it'll be as simple as that. In others, you'll have to do more work and enlist help. There are many psychologists and other professionals who specialize in autism spectrum disorders -- it might help you to enlist the help of one or more of those experts to educate the local police and, should you feel incredibly ambitious (it would seem that challenges don't intimidate you).....homeland security! You'd be doing an amazing service.

Please PM me if you think I might be able to help in any way. And congratulations, Mr. Mayor!

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Congratulations! Liberal Veteran Nov 2012 #1
Awesome mzteaze Nov 2012 #2
Wow and Congrats! n/t fredamae Nov 2012 #3
Bob Dole likes your style. Arkana Nov 2012 #4
Haha... Dob Bole Nov 2012 #8
You know it, ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #18
Not just him. I remember it well. reflection Nov 2012 #39
I only wish Dob Bole were your real name... cyberswede Nov 2012 #88
You dropped your fuckin pencil A HERETIC I AM Nov 2012 #35
How cool. What town? n/t Egalitarian Thug Nov 2012 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Dob Bole Nov 2012 #10
Wow, population 103, I thought my hometown of 500 souls was tiny! Odin2005 Nov 2012 #47
Yeah, it is... Dob Bole Nov 2012 #59
Hearty congrats from this transplant to GA! babylonsister Nov 2012 #57
There are people out there d_r Nov 2012 #68
Done; thanks! nt babylonsister Nov 2012 #74
was doing some "know your enemy" reading during my downtime. Great Caesars Ghost Nov 2012 #81
Well.... vduhr Nov 2012 #82
Pff ornotna Nov 2012 #90
... Matariki Nov 2012 #106
Congratulations and thanks for your work on the Carter speeches. Chiyo-chichi Nov 2012 #6
They were published in "Public Papers of the President"... Dob Bole Nov 2012 #12
Glad you are doing it. Chiyo-chichi Nov 2012 #21
Congratulations, Mr. Mayor! MineralMan Nov 2012 #7
congratulations to you! vilify Nov 2012 #9
Congrats and make us proud!!! backtoblue Nov 2012 #11
Nice to have a real Progressive in GA. Thanks Dob & CONGRATULATIONS! Auntie Bush Nov 2012 #13
Congratulations & good luck Mr. Mayor. Historic NY Nov 2012 #14
that's awesome. wish you the best of luck. mopinko Nov 2012 #15
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Rock on Mr. Mayor! JNelson6563 Nov 2012 #24
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Cool!! bowens43 Nov 2012 #28
That is cool! randome Nov 2012 #29
Can you talk a little more about the two definitions? eggplant Nov 2012 #30
"Suspicous people" Dob Bole Nov 2012 #58
This was what I expected. Thanks! n/t eggplant Nov 2012 #99
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That is excellent ! yesphan Nov 2012 #33
huge Congrats and how exciting. Sheepshank Nov 2012 #34
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Congratulations. Hope it pays well! A HERETIC I AM Nov 2012 #37
I can't wait to tell my students who have autism!! DonRedwood Nov 2012 #38
Awesome! thereismore Nov 2012 #40
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From a disabled person loyalkydem Nov 2012 #44
This Aspie says congrats!!! Odin2005 Nov 2012 #45
Congratulations. Mass Nov 2012 #46
heck, I did not know you were still around hfojvt Nov 2012 #48
Good luck to you. I am no historian, but if an opportunity comes up where I may be of help, I'm in. judesedit Nov 2012 #49
Yay! A real life DU'er in politics. Gregorian Nov 2012 #50
OUTSTANDING!! WilliamPitt Nov 2012 #51
As a former Mayor.... ewagner Nov 2012 #52
Well Done. Hutzpa Nov 2012 #53
any link about your win? riverbendviewgal Nov 2012 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #55
I cannot conceive of a constitutionally legitimate statute or regulation which marybourg Nov 2012 #56
Congratulations!!!! Brilly Nov 2012 #60
congratulations and good luck!!!!! northoftheborder Nov 2012 #61
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YAY and congratulations...... Tikki Nov 2012 #65
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Exceptional!!! blaze Nov 2012 #67
K&R - GOOD JOB! HopeHoops Nov 2012 #69
Outstanding! lumberjack_jeff Nov 2012 #70
How wonderful that you have your constituents foremost in mind panAmerican Nov 2012 #71
Excellent! You're a brave man. CrazyOrangeCat Nov 2012 #72
Well done! reusrename Nov 2012 #73
Congratulations !!! - K & R !!! WillyT Nov 2012 #75
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Congratulations, that is awesome! sabrina 1 Nov 2012 #77
Congratulations, Mr. Mayor. nt msanthrope Nov 2012 #78
Well done! May you serve with honor and distinction! opiate69 Nov 2012 #79
Congratulations! Warpy Nov 2012 #80
Salud! immoderate Nov 2012 #83
Congratulations! You are a courageous being! Dont call me Shirley Nov 2012 #84
That is GREAT!! Congrats to you! rivegauche Nov 2012 #85
Very good. nm rhett o rick Nov 2012 #86
Congratulations! LeftishBrit Nov 2012 #87
Congratulations! LeftofObama Nov 2012 #89
How incredibly awesome! Good for you for taking on that responsibility! tpsbmam Nov 2012 #91
Congrats malaise Nov 2012 #92
Congratulations! That is awesome! You're even younger than the 22 yr old in Dawson, GA? Divine Discontent Nov 2012 #93
Grats upi402 Nov 2012 #94
Congrats, Mayor Dole nadinbrzezinski Nov 2012 #95
Nicely done. Govern well. aikoaiko Nov 2012 #96
congrats FreedomRain Nov 2012 #97
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Congratulations! myrna minx Nov 2012 #100
This is where all political action starts--at the local level eridani Nov 2012 #101
Congratulations and good luck to you, Mayor Bole!! kestrel91316 Nov 2012 #102
WONDERFUL! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! karmaqueen Nov 2012 #103
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Well, congrats, DB. AverageJoe90 Nov 2012 #105
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Congrads Mr. Mayor! LovingA2andMI Nov 2012 #109
YOU GO DUDE!!!! Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #110
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