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In reply to the discussion: Every woman you know has taken a longer route. [View all]BigmanPigman
(55,278 posts)69. I don't have your self control.
If I were walking in a busy city in the daylight and there were people around I would give them the finger.
I think that living at Union Sq NYC in 1979 and 1980, when it was full of junkies and not farmers' markets and playgrounds, was a quick lesson in self defense. I wouldn't even take that subway stop and got off at the next closest and walked to Union Sq. Since I am only 5'1" and 100 pounds I have to make the most with what I've got. I still walk very quickly with no facial expressions and my eyes are even narrow. Body language and facial expressions can deter many people right off the bat.
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I didn't know the thing about the keys till much later but I figured out the rest: purse worn bandolier style...
Hekate
Mar 2024
#26
It just seemed like a good idea to me. Look like you're more trouble than you're worth.
calimary
Mar 2024
#39
I never did that because I have weak arms and couldn't defend myself that way, thought more about
betsuni
Mar 2024
#31
I have a relative who decided to become a Christian and go to church by herself at the age of five.
barbaraann
Mar 2024
#53
I know it's true. From what I've read, more women are arming up nowadays. Can't blame them
Silent Type
Mar 2024
#9
Ive been walking down the street and the man behind me has made a point of crossing to the other side
Demovictory9
Mar 2024
#54
Wow that's horrifying. Glad you were aware of what was happening and were OK.
Diamond_Dog
Mar 2024
#37
All the above, except when I said no, they (3 different ones that I recall) stopped.
fierywoman
Mar 2024
#22
Yet the greatest danger to women isn't from attacks out of the blue out in the streets...
Silent3
Mar 2024
#29
My mom used to make frequent drives between a home in Colorado, and one in New Mexico.
Crunchy Frog
Mar 2024
#61
And we have to teach our daughters to do those things and think like they're prey,
Timeflyer
Mar 2024
#45