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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]Democrat 4 Ever
(3,941 posts)sign of your age or the era remotely understandable. Its the same excuse that men have been using since the beginning of time to condone their behavior. THEY need sex and supposedly can't control themselves? Puhleeze. Sorry but your need to stick it somewhere due to your age, hormones or whatever is not a "pass go, collect $200 and become more evolved years later" rationalization. If the young women did not give implicit consent (and yes, even women are allowed to be young, dumb and make mistakes and still be afforded protection not to be violated no matter how bad their party companions needs) you are a rapist. Period. You can try to sugarcoat it anyway you want but you took it upon yourself to use another person for your own pleasure without her consent. Her attending a party where raging hormones are on a seek and destroy mission is not consent.
Do you teach your sons that young, horny and opportunity makes it okay when "sluts" are available? Do you teach your daughters to stay home away from such creatures or they are fair game? It does make good message board fodder as long as the youthful, out-of-control stud muffin of long ago "evolves" decades later. Blech.