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chowder66

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23. The father of a couple of kids I carpooled with in high school was a vet.
Wed Aug 28, 2024, 04:08 PM
Aug 2024

One day while waiting for his kids (I was in the back of the VW bus), he broke down and spilled his guts after I asked him if he was okay that day.
It was heart wrenching and he apologized over and over. He didn't know why he just spilled his guts out to a 16 year old girl.

Luckily he told me he was going into therapy and he seemed pretty glad about it. He cried, I cried. It was odd but I could see how cathartic it was for him.
This was in 1983.

My dad was enlisted but they kept him stateside. Not sure why but most of the guys he trained and became friends with, were killed in the war. It haunted him. He hated war movies.

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Arlington [View all] orangecrush Aug 2024 OP
I hope trump is haunted every night. Arne Aug 2024 #1
Not possible orangecrush Aug 2024 #2
Psychopaths have no soul. Same same. Arne Aug 2024 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author Arne Aug 2024 #4
One reason he admires Hannibal Lecter as a hero. surfered Aug 2024 #7
And he's a malignant narcissist as well. ShazzieB Aug 2024 #18
Not a chance. evolves Aug 2024 #11
Trump smiling at the graves Beck23 Aug 2024 #5
agreed poozwah Aug 2024 #16
This orangecrush Aug 2024 #20
A highly honorable job but an extremely hard one. chowder66 Aug 2024 #6
He never spoke about the war orangecrush Aug 2024 #21
The father of a couple of kids I carpooled with in high school was a vet. chowder66 Aug 2024 #23
I stayed with Bob and his wife near DC orangecrush Aug 2024 #24
I don't think they really pushed therapy back then. chowder66 Aug 2024 #25
unamerican poozwah Aug 2024 #8
Such an apt description of this monster. llmart Aug 2024 #14
thank you poozwah Aug 2024 #15
+1 orangecrush Aug 2024 #22
I went to Arlington just once. ChazInAz Aug 2024 #27
Any "Vets for Trump" out there today? Probably, but hopefully fewer. twodogsbarking Aug 2024 #9
Now is Trump going to lose some veteran voters over this? IronLionZion Aug 2024 #10
Saw a truck yesterday evolves Aug 2024 #13
Silence and Respect BOSSHOG Aug 2024 #12
I went there too. GoYouPackersGo Aug 2024 #17
Intense indeed My Friend BOSSHOG Aug 2024 #19
I hope your brother knew how profoundly meaningful the spooky3 Aug 2024 #26
Very aware orangecrush Aug 2024 #28
You're welcome. spooky3 Aug 2024 #29
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