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rasputin1952

(83,497 posts)
39. That was not in the story...
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:35 PM
Feb 2025

However, it makes it even worse.

You are certainly correct that at 14 she was indeed a child.
No one should ever be abused, in particular a child, it is one of the Red Lines that I feel cannot be crossed.

I don't know much about "morality" as that is a religious aspect, and I am an atheist. What I do know is right from wrong, and I learned it the hard way. This idiot was not even in school yet when I was in an ill-conceived war, consigned to taking the lives of others, while protecting those around me. For some abstract reason, some people feel no repercussions for their actions, I am not one of them. I came back, became a Medic, and went back to save lives, both American and Vietnamese. Every day, I live with everything I've ever done, this has brought me to a state where compassion and empathy often overrule my sense of self-preservation.

I obviously do not know you, but as I type this, I can almost feel the terror you and Victoria went through, but I can truly never know. Over the years, I have stopped two sexual abusers because of the cries I heard. I'm no one special, and certainly no hero, but the two perpetrators were in bad shape when the police arrived (Red Lines). That was quite a few years ago, with a few years interspersed between the incidents. I am truly sorry that you or any girl or woman goes through this, and you are brave to have posted what you have. I only wish that I, or someone like me, were close enough to intervene.

When Victoria took her own life, she was a woman, traumatized, and bereft.

My heart goes out to you, and I hope the individual paid dearly. I am a man of principles, and have learned that what I have done in the past cannot be undone. I can't bring the dead back to life, nor can I repair their families. What I can do is teach and protect those who would be devoured by their thoughts, or the rabid wolves that prey on others.

Empathy is a somewhat cheap word, but the emotion is real.

Stay safe and strong.

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It's more claudette Feb 2025 #1
What we say here in Colorado: DENVERPOPS Feb 2025 #35
LOL claudette Feb 2025 #43
What do they think when they have drunk the shithole juice................. Lovie777 Feb 2025 #2
I wonder if he kisses his constituents' babies with that mouth? Hugin Feb 2025 #3
I looked this guy up. He lost re-election. yardwork Feb 2025 #4
His agenda lives on though. Hugin Feb 2025 #5
A 14 year old girl, who committed suicide when she was 20. yardwork Feb 2025 #6
My reply to Bouchard would be OLDMDDEM Feb 2025 #7
How about this: "You're a pickme who's auditioning for trump to shit in your mouth " rainin Feb 2025 #11
I like it. OLDMDDEM Feb 2025 #15
Sounds like lonely bird Feb 2025 #32
Two state senators, one cup.... rubbersole Feb 2025 #34
Trash like this dude are aping the trickle-down vulgarity of their orange Gawd-King. This is not normal! Timeflyer Feb 2025 #8
Any bets Bouchard is also complaining elsewhere about "the coarsening of culture" due to libruhls? . . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2025 #9
Wow. A Fish that doesn't know it's in the water Captain Zero Feb 2025 #16
A fish happy to be surrounded by gold because it is in tRump's toilet bowl. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2025 #18
I had to look this idiot up... rasputin1952 Feb 2025 #10
The wreckage these people leave behind. Hugin Feb 2025 #13
A gentle correction here if you will permit; he raped her, and she was a child, not a woman when she birthed their son. Maru Kitteh Feb 2025 #23
That was not in the story... rasputin1952 Feb 2025 #39
Children cannot consent. It is rape by definition. Maru Kitteh Feb 2025 #42
Agreed n/t rasputin1952 Feb 2025 #46
Horrific and that this person was a senator Meowmee Feb 2025 #27
He's represents the people who voted for him. dchill Feb 2025 #30
I am so thankful that I was born into a family of human beings. tavernier Feb 2025 #12
The children have to keep one upping each other. "Well, I triple double dare you to" LiberalArkie Feb 2025 #14
This guy? karin_sj Feb 2025 #17
Just for curiosity, I checked out his Facebook page karin_sj Feb 2025 #20
His constituents must be so proud PJMcK Feb 2025 #19
He is now "former" state senator but, agreed. niyad Feb 2025 #22
I went to the link to read the comments. Dear Goddess, what a piece of filth he is. niyad Feb 2025 #21
Unfortunately raised by him and now a rapist IbogaProject Feb 2025 #25
Damn... rasputin1952 Feb 2025 #41
How utterly horrendous. niyad Feb 2025 #44
More projection lame54 Feb 2025 #24
Awful, I'm not sure what to say that a former senator would do that... Meowmee Feb 2025 #26
Golden showers is more of a trump thing. Dave Bowman Feb 2025 #28
this is what the GOP means by "family values" RainCaster Feb 2025 #29
Vulgar and crude peggysue2 Feb 2025 #31
I know he's very confused. i'm pretty sure that bluestarone Feb 2025 #33
The magat version of a lemonade stand... rubbersole Feb 2025 #36
And, tragically, hypocrisy is one of their better traits. BobTheSubgenius Feb 2025 #37
It was a needle with vaccine, and I waltzed thru Covid, not missing a beat. Festivito Feb 2025 #38
I am sorry, but I do not understand your first sentence. niyad Feb 2025 #45
Hi. I took the peeing as being a metaphor for getting the vaccine. Festivito Feb 2025 #47
Not a problem. I just wondered what I was missing. niyad Feb 2025 #48
Look who's talking Americanme Feb 2025 #40
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