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In reply to the discussion: Lots of blame for the Mother. Apparently Dad's off the hook , though, [View all]regnaD kciN
(26,045 posts)131. "THY shall know them by their spelling"...?
Or their grammar, apparently.
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Lots of blame for the Mother. Apparently Dad's off the hook , though, [View all]
elehhhhna
Dec 2012
OP
Autism or Aspberger's do not cause one not to feel physical pain. Depression can make one feel numb
Michigan Alum
Dec 2012
#134
Did not know he had congenital analgesia..... haven't seen that mentioned anywhere.
Michigan Alum
Dec 2012
#191
Your Username is perfect with this post. I thank you for your drop of reason in this sea of madness
KittyWampus
Dec 2012
#56
The mother used horrible judgment in keeping a lot of guns around a mentally disturbed son.
Arugula Latte
Dec 2012
#61
His brother sure seemed to know. Bet Dad knew, too, and was helpless to change things.
Nay
Dec 2012
#110
Actually, it's because I have a very long name that my baby brother could not say, and "Nay"
Nay
Dec 2012
#202
He did have an "altercation" with four office staff at the school. Sounds serious to
Flabbergasted
Dec 2012
#127
I haven't had time to read the threads you refer to but I thinkyou are correct. There is only one
grantcart
Dec 2012
#143
There's a ton of articles saying this - her sister was the one who reported this.
Michigan Alum
Dec 2012
#194
This was exactly my take on it, too. He was already giving her more alimony than was required,
Nay
Dec 2012
#12
Of course it is. I am not a reporter writing a story, or an author writing a book. I am just
Nay
Dec 2012
#201
In one article I read, the older brother Ryan had not had contact with his younger
amandabeech
Dec 2012
#129
he was a gun owner as well. reports were the "entire family" used to go to shooting range together
bettyellen
Dec 2012
#14
yeah, I think they are being a bit unfair to the mom for sticking it out. parents have few options
bettyellen
Dec 2012
#30
The landscaper who knew the mother said that she had a lot of bad things to say
undeterred
Dec 2012
#13
I thought that both the brother and father said they hadn't spoken to Adam in years.
Michigan Alum
Dec 2012
#135
Responsibility for safety issues of the former spouse's personal property,
kestrel91316
Dec 2012
#83
Yeah. When she kicks him out of the house and cashes the $250,000 annual alimony check.
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2012
#93
That's right. The thread is about Mr. Lanza, who no one here knows anything about. /nt
mn9driver
Dec 2012
#75
Some states recognize that women are owed an equitable distribution of the assets, not just the
msanthrope
Dec 2012
#189
When I say we are all to blame, I mean as a society we are all to blame.
Starboard Tack
Dec 2012
#182
Try this one on for size. If custody had been awarded to dad, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2012
#95
Sounds like dad left all that "old-family" trouble behind--wonder if he kept
TwilightGardener
Dec 2012
#96
How do you know he abandoned them. I wouldn't say 28 yr married is abandment.
southernyankeebelle
Dec 2012
#101
There are tons of people who cheat on spouses but it doesn't lead to a 20 yr old
southernyankeebelle
Dec 2012
#158
i agree with your opinion also. Although divorice is very hard I don't think he just
southernyankeebelle
Dec 2012
#168
I betcha that was the reason for the divorce. He'd found himself a new sweetie. nt
raccoon
Dec 2012
#114
That scenario happened to several people in my family. In one case, my family member
raccoon
Dec 2012
#120