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elocs

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28. Dementia is a terrible way to die with the brain rotting away leaving once was a unique human
Mon Apr 14, 2025, 03:22 AM
Apr 2025

being just a husk and shell of what they once were.
My mother spent the last 15 years of her life in a nursing home, slowly dying of Alzheimer's.
When her physical body finally shut down, her mind was long gone.
But we judge what they are experiencing from our own perspective. Do we really know?
Because nobody afflicted with dementia has ever recovered to tell us what they had experienced.

I once visited my mother and she was sleeping and I decided to let her sleep because I thought that maybe she was in a better place in her dreams so why awake her to a confusing reality? Besides, at that point I was a stranger to her.

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Very sad. I'm sorry about this. Scrivener7 Apr 2025 #1
I could be mistaken (I so often am!), but I think she also cocreated Upstairs, Downstairs DavidDvorkin Apr 2025 #2
Yes -- you're correct. I was a huge fan of the original series that spanned many allegorical oracle Apr 2025 #3
You are correct, Thank you for posting. John1956PA Apr 2025 #5
70's version of Downton Abbey. Sneederbunk Apr 2025 #4
No choie Apr 2025 #7
Upstairs, Downstairs focussed on real people Retrograde Apr 2025 #20
Absolutely. UD is the apex of the television era. NameAlreadyTaken Apr 2025 #25
Right you are: "Upstairs Downstairs" was much better than "Downtown Abbey." Paladin Apr 2025 #30
Sad news 😓 R-I-P Jean 🙏 nt Raine Apr 2025 #6
Oh no!! I grew up with that show . . . hatrack Apr 2025 #8
Some British comedy show did a parody of U/D and Downton Abbey DavidDvorkin Apr 2025 #9
Remember the Twilight Zone episode "The Lonely"? Prof. Toru Tanaka Apr 2025 #10
She was also a recurring player in the legendary BBC series Morbius Apr 2025 #11
I loved that show. I think it was my first real introduction to British shows Demovictory9 Apr 2025 #12
Me too NameAlreadyTaken Apr 2025 #26
There was an "Upstairs Downstairs" reboot maybe 15 years ago Warpy Apr 2025 #13
UpDowns was on when I was too young to appreciate it BaronChocula Apr 2025 #14
One of the best at her craft and moniss Apr 2025 #15
We've watched that entire series at least 3 times - it is simply wonderful and unique and Jean Marsh was a NewHendoLib Apr 2025 #16
"Upstairs, Downstairs" was must-see TV in our family. LisaM Apr 2025 #17
Lansbury was so wonderful about including her previous co-stars in her "Murder She allegorical oracle Apr 2025 #31
Yes, I watch it in reruns a lot, and that's fun. LisaM Apr 2025 #32
"" AllaN01Bear Apr 2025 #18
Cross gently, dear lady. calimary Apr 2025 #19
A beautiful lady. John1956PA Apr 2025 #21
As well as appearing in a vast number of TV productions, both in the UK and the US, she also had quite a film career Emrys Apr 2025 #22
RIP area51 Apr 2025 #23
This is sad news NameAlreadyTaken Apr 2025 #24
There was a reboot of Upstairs Downstairs canetoad Apr 2025 #27
Dementia is a terrible way to die with the brain rotting away leaving once was a unique human elocs Apr 2025 #28
So sad to hear. It is a difficult disease for everyone concerned. (hugs.) allegorical oracle Apr 2025 #29
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