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choie

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Sun Dec 7, 2025, 06:28 PM Sunday

Ruben Gallego's leaked texts mocking Democrats' looks & masculinity intensify temperament concerns [View all]

First-year U.S. Sen. Ruben Gallego of Arizona is facing intensified scrutiny after leaked text messages showed the Democrat deriding the appearance of women and men in his own party. The comments mirror far-right rhetoric about gender and deepen concerns about his recent repositioning on LGBTQ+ issues.

In the messages, first circulated by a conservative outlet and reported by People last week Gallego, who started his first term in the U.S. Senate in January after previously serving in the House, complained that Democrats are “not allowing men to be men” or “women to be hot,” and wrote, “Dem women look like Dem men and Dem men look like women.” He also lamented that Democrats had become “the not fun party” and no longer embodied “sex, drugs, and rock and roll.”

He made some of these remarks after receiving a meme that included an image of 82-year-old Connecticut U.S. Rep. Rosa DeLauro, a fellow Democrat.

The remarks came at a moment of escalating political and legislative hostility toward transgender Americans. Seeing a Democratic senator, who replaced Democrat-turned-independent bisexual Sen. Krysten Sinema, use the same gender-policing language deployed by anti-trans commentators has alarmed advocates, who say the rhetoric legitimizes narratives that treat gender nonconformity as a cultural defect rather than a civil rights issue, independent journalist Erin Reed notes on her Substack newsletter Erin in the Morning.

The revelations about his texts also come after months of movement by Gallego away from previously held support for transgender rights. In May, The Advocate reported that Gallego described concerns about transgender girls in sports as “legitimate,” a shift LGBTQ+ groups warned would empower discriminatory policymaking. He later voted for a defense bill containing a ban on gender-affirming surgeries for military personnel.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/ruben-gallego-leaked-texts-mocking-212113278.html

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Woah! Not good, Sen. electric_blue68 Sunday #1
Which reminds me, why do people do such stupid shit? BeyondGeography Sunday #2
They can't help but reveal choie Sunday #4
His statements are as inane as they are ill-advised BeyondGeography Sunday #5
Better to find out now. yourout Sunday #3
Not to mention the millions in donations from the cryptobros for his yes vote on the GENIUS act. Nt Fiendish Thingy Sunday #6
So men just need to look like men (whatever that means) senseandsensibility Sunday #7
I Always Have To Question... ProfessorGAC Sunday #8
This. mr715 Sunday #12
How do you mean? choie Sunday #13
I Said No Such Thing ProfessorGAC Sunday #19
I wasn't accusing you of anything. choie Sunday #21
This Ferrets are Cool Monday #55
You're correct and someone like me that grew up without email or texts knows implicitly never to put anything in writing Midwestern Democrat Sunday #20
Disappointing. IcyPeas Sunday #9
Golden! Don't forget about Golden! mr715 Sunday #11
and jaymac Monday #51
With respect to Sen. Gallego mr715 Sunday #10
Right! FHRRK Sunday #33
Lol, you're right Polybius Sunday #35
What is with Arizona Democrats aside from Mark Kelly? Ritabert Sunday #14
Is it real... 2naSalit Sunday #15
Real Polybius Sunday #37
Yeah, He's Heartbroken Deep State Witch 17 hrs ago #65
It seems more like criticism of feminists or women's rights JI7 Sunday #16
Shame on him. La Coliniere Sunday #17
When can we primary this jerk? intheflow Sunday #18
5 years from now Anxy Monday #47
... Solly Mack Sunday #22
Well said. Mocking people smells of exclusivity. Raven123 Sunday #27
I could mock him, but I won't. I mean, men do come in all shapes, sizes, and levels of hotness. Solly Mack Sunday #44
When did he make these remarks? If it was a while ago then we could cut some slack though LymphocyteLover Sunday #31
The lack of an apology gave me pause too. Solly Mack Sunday #43
"Does he mean let more people in who think as he does?" -- it sounds like it to me orleans Sunday #36
I'm sure I wouldn't meet his definition of hot. Thankfully. Solly Mack Sunday #45
as with Trump Skittles Monday #50
I was wondering since dem men look like women and he is a dem man, does he think he looks like a woman? Solly Mack Tuesday #57
I could be wrong, H2O Man Tuesday #61
heh Solly Mack Tuesday #62
I wonder what trump looks like to Gallego. Tikki Sunday #23
Glad I never sent him any money. milestogo Sunday #24
Message auto-removed Name removed Sunday #25
I've heard a Dem say something similar. But there's too much shit going on for this to be a major issue LymphocyteLover Sunday #32
F him and I am so sorry for anyone that sent him money or ALBliberal Sunday #26
I was one those who donated to his campaign. So disappointed. n/t iluvtennis Sunday #29
Hey I was previously impressed by the guy ALBliberal Sunday #30
😡 AllyCat Sunday #28
disappointing Kali Sunday #34
I'm sorry, but how is this not all over the news? Polybius Sunday #38
Because there's a lot of other news maxsolomon Tuesday #58
But when Fetterman says something even mildly controversial, it's all over the news n/t Polybius Tuesday #59
Well, clearly, the news is biased in favor of Gallego maxsolomon 19 hrs ago #63
Trojan horse? spudspud Sunday #39
Rep. Grijalva looks great! What a stupid thing to say wolfie001 Sunday #40
Do we HAVE to always have a DINO as a Senator from Arizona??? regnaD kciN Sunday #41
What a pitifully shallow individual. lostnfound Sunday #42
Sexist comments -- and denying civil rights to trans folks TommyT139 Monday #46
Disappointing, but better than Kari Lake. n/t Coventina Monday #48
The texts are cringey fujiyamasan Monday #49
Just looked up a picture of him and Luciferous Monday #52
He loves crypto. Another reason I'd never vote for him. It just keeps getting worse for him. I live in AZ. nt in2herbs Monday #53
I'm so glad someone posted about this shit. It's worse than disgusting. Ferrets are Cool Monday #54
Cringe Oneironaut Monday #56
Not a good look SunImp Tuesday #60
Meh. BannonsLiver 18 hrs ago #64
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