Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

General Discussion

Showing Original Post only (View all)

AverageOldGuy

(4,001 posts)
Mon Jan 19, 2026, 12:31 AM Jan 2026

We have made a decision [View all]

We are in our 80's.

I'm in decent shape, work out 3-5 days a week, do all the driving and errands, though I have spinal stenosis, walk with a cane. and my hips hurt if I walk more than a block.

My wife of almost 60 years (60 years at the end of July) is not as fortunate -- Type II insulin-dependent diabetic, spinal stenosis, knee replacement, balance problems (two falls in past three years requiring surgery to correct), digestive problems, heart problems, walks with a walker.

We both understand that one or both of us could die in the next 15 minutes or we may make it another 15 years.

As college students in Alabama in the 1960's, we both marched in Selma, Montgomery, and Birmingham. We were knocked down by Bull Connor's firehoses and bitten by his dogs. We have marched and marched and demonstrated and volunteered for Habitat, in food banks, in homeless shelters, and you name it.

We recently moved from our custom-designed and custom-built home in rural Virginia into a small Northern Virginia apartment and are in a new United Methodist Church. During the morning prayer, the minister starts the prayer then members of the congregation can call out the name of a person for whom they want prayers and the congregation responds "Hear our prayers." Today I called out as loudly as I could "The People of Minnesota" and our congregation roared "Hear our prayers!!!" -- and after the service, damn near 3/4 of the congregation came up to me -- some with tears in their eyes -- thanking me.

Our decision is simple: We will NOT COMPLY -- we will not comply and we will let the world know it -- vocally, publicly, at every chance we get .

Our message to ICE is simple: Shoot if you must these old grey heads.

WE ARE NOT HEROES -- NOT AT ALL. But we have to ask ourselves: WTF WOULD JESUS DO?????


60 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
We have made a decision [View all] AverageOldGuy Jan 2026 OP
Great post. Sending good vibes to you and your wife spooky3 Jan 2026 #1
Seconded. It really is a great post! Scott Alan Swaggerty Jan 2026 #48
Certainly reflects my attiude. I didn't get this far in fear, I'm not fearful now. It's time to stand in any capacity we marble falls Jan 2026 #2
Amen! Scott Alan Swaggerty Jan 2026 #49
Thank you for sharing this! flamingdem Jan 2026 #3
You're honorable, caring people, willing to stand up and speak out for what's right. And whether highplainsdem Jan 2026 #4
+1 Scott Alan Swaggerty Jan 2026 #50
Your post really touched me and I send my best wishes to you and your wife for a healthy new year. Deuxcents Jan 2026 #5
I love this godsentme Jan 2026 #6
I got chills down my spine reading this! ShazzieB Jan 2026 #7
Every day I send my prayers. LOUD 'N CrLEAR. 3Hotdogs Jan 2026 #8
I love this Joinfortmill Jan 2026 #9
Check for PAD AncientOfDays Jan 2026 #10
Your post is bringing tears... 3catwoman3 Jan 2026 #11
Fellow 80+'ers here....thank you for this wonderful post! young_at_heart Jan 2026 #12
Thank You For This. BurnDoubt Jan 2026 #13
Thank You❤️ So meaningful.......So true. lucca18 Jan 2026 #14
Thank you from an old woman Randomthought Jan 2026 #15
I had Tears just reading you OP, AOG Cha Jan 2026 #16
Thank you for thinking of us! dflprincess Jan 2026 #17
Thanks for sharing AverageOldGuy Uncle Joe Jan 2026 #18
Thanks! Now I know what to say to the "religiously insane" repukes I know. They figure that they have cornered the CTyankee Jan 2026 #19
Today, I will be walking in the MLK rally hoosierspud Jan 2026 #20
Our Daily Dread utherpendragon Jan 2026 #21
Love you both malaise Jan 2026 #22
. Loryn Jan 2026 #23
Very cool, AOG. Timeflyer Jan 2026 #24
Sounds like you are definitely above Average... Wounded Bear Jan 2026 #25
"Who touches a hair of yon grey head.... bleedingulcers Jan 2026 #26
Same decision I made. Live free or die. Irish_Dem Jan 2026 #27
So great to see your post and know that people outside of adopted state for a long while support us...... riversedge Jan 2026 #28
Thanks AverageOldGuy.... fantase56 Jan 2026 #29
Not just a good poem, soldierant Jan 2026 #54
Shoot if you must this old grey head, but leave your country's flag, she said. Good poem. n/t PatrickforB Jan 2026 #30
Thank you for this. hamsterjill Jan 2026 #31
Love ya, AverageOldGuy! Kid Berwyn Jan 2026 #32
Thank you for this post AverageOldGuy. Right behind you. c-rational Jan 2026 #33
Good for you! And glad to hear it was so well received. VTderry Jan 2026 #34
You and your wife are good Americans. Americanme Jan 2026 #35
We...also...will NOT COMPLY ret5hd Jan 2026 #36
Tears here too. Well done AOG. Evolve Dammit Jan 2026 #37
Message auto-removed Name removed Jan 2026 #38
"WTF WOULD JESUS DO?????" OldBaldy1701E Jan 2026 #39
Wonderful recounting of your life and a great spontaneous shout out for the folks of Minnesota. Fla Dem Jan 2026 #40
Very touching post. llmart Jan 2026 #41
According to MAGA, Jesus Quanto Magnus Jan 2026 #42
God bless you samplegirl Jan 2026 #43
That's the true fighting spirit we all need to be exemplifying. La Coliniere Jan 2026 #44
Thank you for sharing and volunteering Bluewonder Jan 2026 #45
Thank you for that, AOG LNM Jan 2026 #46
Thank you for this. Scott Alan Swaggerty Jan 2026 #47
get thee to the greatest page . ding this AllaN01Bear Jan 2026 #51
Sorry to disagree, but YES, YOU ARE HEROES thought crime Jan 2026 #52
You and your Mrs. are WAY ABOVE AVERAGE, my friend FakeNoose Jan 2026 #53
Hugs to you and your wife. democrank Jan 2026 #55
I don't know what to say that the other posters haven't already said MustLoveBeagles Jan 2026 #56
Wonderful post! mountain grammy Jan 2026 #57
JESUS would TEAR DOWN the Trump temple---- and the maggots would Jack Valentino Jan 20 #58
Thank you ahlnord Jan 20 #59
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Jan 20 #60
Latest Discussions»General Discussion»We have made a decision