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AverageOldGuy

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Thu Jun 11, 2026, 06:52 PM Jun 11

Thanks for all your support!!! [View all]

Short version: Ms. Average Old Guy is back home -- to ER Monday about 10:30 AM, back home around 4:00 this afternoon. Severe UTI and pneumonia with no idea where either of the infections came from.

Long version.

Sunday she was her usual (83 yr old) self . . . moving a little slow, giving Trump the finger, talking with our 19-yr-old mildly autistic grandson about his job prospects, pissing and moaning at me for some stupid shit I did.

Monday morning 9:30, in bed, called me, she was choking on vomit, got her airway cleared, stripped off nasty PJ's, headed for bathroom and she had no idea where she was, who she was, who I was . . . . I'm an old EMT, ran rescue for 14 years in rural VA, got vitals, BP 80/40, O2 86%, cyanotic, respirations 36 and rapid, pulse 102, chest sounds crackles, rales, rhonchi . Called 911.

Monday through Tuesday night 4X daily IV antibiotics, still confused, did not recognize me or our son, daughter, DIL, or grandsons. Responded to most questions with blank stare, slept constantly.

Wednesday morning was different story -- "Why am I in hospital??" Was suddenly her usual lovably grouchy self, improved gradually, stil unsteady on her feet, appetite returning, all she wants now is a shower.


ALL THE SUPPORT FROM OUR DU FRIENDS REALLY DID MEAN A LOT -- when any of us finds ourselves in the midst of a crisis, it's not the crisis that beats you down, it's the loneliness. Knowing that folks you never met and never will meet are concerned about you, worried about you, sharing your worry keeps you going. THANK YOU ALL.

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Thanks for all your support!!! [View all] AverageOldGuy Jun 11 OP
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover Jun 11 #1
❤️ underpants Jun 11 #2
💙💙💙 sheshe2 Jun 11 #3
Good news Lifeafter70 Jun 11 #4
Happy for both of you malaise Jun 11 #5
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post MustLoveBeagles Jun 11 #6
Glad she's home and you're both doing better! senseandsensibility Jun 11 #7
So happy she's home and on the road back to being her awesome self. a kennedy Jun 11 #8
Glad it's ok now. There's no place like home 🙏 surfered Jun 11 #9
So glad you were there for her Dear_Prudence Jun 11 #10
Oh gosh what a scare! Diamond_Dog Jun 11 #11
Wonderful news Grim Chieftain Jun 11 #12
Great news oasis Jun 11 #13
Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better! electric_blue68 Jun 11 #14
I love a happy ending - TBF Jun 11 #15
Good news canetoad Jun 11 #16
I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy, JMCKUSICK Jun 11 #17
When grouchy is a relief BaronChocula Jun 11 #18
love good news! markie Jun 11 #19
Great to hear IbogaProject Jun 11 #20
So glad for both of you that she is home and healing. 3catwoman3 Jun 11 #21
"... it's the loneliness." JoseBalow Jun 11 #22
Fantastic news! gademocrat7 Jun 11 #23
Thanks for the update. yellow dahlia Jun 11 #24
So happy to hear the good news! MLAA Jun 11 #25
Wow! That EMT experience really came in handy! bsiebs Jun 11 #26
So glad she is better! She's lucky you were there for her. Scrivener7 Jun 11 #27
Great news! murielm99 Jun 11 #28
That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light niyad Jun 11 #29
"" AllaN01Bear Jun 11 #30
It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again FakeNoose Jun 11 #31
She sounds like me! Pucks mom Jun 11 #32
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope Jun 11 #33
Norovirus is sweeping through our county, in CA Zackzzzz Jun 11 #34
Good to hear Mrs. AOG is doing well! Totally Tunsie Jun 11 #35
I am so glad. I wonder what the heck happened?? LoisB Jun 11 #36
Great news mountain grammy Jun 12 #37
Good to hear she's on the mend. mwmisses4289 Jun 12 #38
Glad to hear the good news! 70sEraVet Jun 12 #39
Glad to hear she's doing better. FemDemERA Jun 12 #40
Missed the original post on your wife's condition peggysue2 Jun 12 #41
Glad to hear it is better for her & you irisblue Jun 12 #42
Your good news is good news for all of us! calimary Jun 12 #43
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