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Rorey

(8,515 posts)
83. Sadly, I live in a city where solicitors can't read
Thu Jul 2, 2026, 08:13 AM
1 hr ago

I never, ever open the door if I don't know who it is. If someone rings my doorbell when I'm home, I might open my office window after checking my cameras, and then I ask what they're purpose is and tell them I'm not interested. I'm considering putting a chain across the steps leading to my front door.

My mom used to have a saying, "If you're not invited, you're not welcome." It sounds a little harsh, but I really don't like surprise visitors, even if I know them. I prefer to get at least a little bit of a heads-up that someone will be visiting. I do the same for others. I always call or text ahead and ask if it's a good time.

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NOPE. IT'S "DON'T EVEN OPEN THE DAMN DOOR!".... ColoringFool 21 hrs ago #1
Absolutely! SheltieLover 20 hrs ago #11
I NEVER open the door unless I know Who it is--i have the advantage of looking riversedge 17 hrs ago #55
We have a peephole in our front door. calimary 9 hrs ago #71
100% correct. AZ8theist 6 hrs ago #74
Another Useful Rule: Never Hire a Contractor From a Company That Runs Frequent TV Ads. MineralMan 21 hrs ago #2
+1. Plumbing and HVAC companies that run TV ads are the worst. They want to replace, not repair dalton99a 21 hrs ago #5
There's a commission on a sale. Conjuay 20 hrs ago #14
yes there is esp car repairs Oppaloopa 8 min ago #87
And never, EVER front them the money. They get paid when the job is done to your satisfaction! n/t PatrickforB 19 hrs ago #31
Do not touch the door. Ignore them, and call the cops if they try to loiter dalton99a 21 hrs ago #3
I don't open my door to anyone Diamond_Dog 21 hrs ago #4
Same here, DD! SheltieLover 20 hrs ago #12
When the Jehovah's Witness people come by, I invite them in to see my Amway products. Permanut 18 hrs ago #42
Ahh yes, the old Jehovah's Witness blitzkrieg that used to happen in my apartment complex. OldBaldy1701E 1 hr ago #82
Having been on both sides of that door I endorse this post SSJVegeta 20 hrs ago #6
Once I was mowing my front lawn and was approached by a guy spooky3 20 hrs ago #7
That was quick thinking! Good for you! Diamond_Dog 20 hrs ago #13
TY! A more unsettling incident was when I was sick and spooky3 20 hrs ago #20
I would also be leery of letting someone I don't know come inside if I were home alone. Diamond_Dog 19 hrs ago #26
Not just these days. It has always been that way for women. Since my niyad 18 hrs ago #50
Thank you! raccoon 4 hrs ago #79
Martial Arts ninjanurse 1 hr ago #84
So very true. And the younger we get girls started, the better. Age 4, as niyad 1 hr ago #85
Smart Joinfortmill 18 hrs ago #39
Maybe 1980, a steak salesman came to the door nilram 18 hrs ago #48
Good one! Nt spooky3 17 hrs ago #52
I used to use the same line when we'd get land line calls... 3catwoman3 9 hrs ago #72
They practice their pitch and don't have a comeback helpisontheway 6 hrs ago #75
Years ago -- like in the 50s my parents were approached by a beef-selling salesman RVN VET71 9 hrs ago #73
Around here, it is more likely to be young evangelists from LDS or 7th Day Adventists or other... hlthe2b 20 hrs ago #8
Tell them "You work for Jesus? Give me his number. I want to call him." dalton99a 13 hrs ago #65
Only one really irritated me in recent years and to them, I told them I was Muslim and began speaking in Arabic. hlthe2b 13 hrs ago #66
The days of the proverbial Fuller Brush Man are long gone. Intractable 20 hrs ago #9
It must be such a treat to be married to you, belittling and infantilizing your wife on DU. Maru Kitteh 20 hrs ago #10
I first thought it was going to be satire leftstreet 19 hrs ago #32
I know. Yikes! Joinfortmill 18 hrs ago #41
Whow! OK. Trust_Reality 15 hrs ago #59
Actually I like almost all of the other posts better. Sorry it hit a tender spot with you. Trust_Reality 15 hrs ago #61
I live near a major city - TBF 20 hrs ago #15
I have an outer metal gate in front door with an atrium in the middle kimbutgar 20 hrs ago #16
Can't win anywhere by opening the door. And some non-advice. usonian 20 hrs ago #17
We've had a couple of vacuum cleaner guys around. The rest are madinmaryland 20 hrs ago #18
A lot of those outfits are scammy as fuck Stacey Grove 20 hrs ago #19
The Pella guy was aggressive because their product is crap LT Barclay 20 hrs ago #21
They may ask you to sign their tablet just showing that they visited your house. If you do they will use the twodogsbarking 20 hrs ago #22
+1. dalton99a 14 hrs ago #64
I feel bad for your wife, she was probably the only person who actually answered the door FakeNoose 20 hrs ago #23
The best two dollars I've spent in while. Ohiya 20 hrs ago #24
We have a No Soliciting sign at the entrance to our sub. llmart 19 hrs ago #30
I have a No Soliciting sign just underneath my doorbell. SeattleVet 18 hrs ago #51
Sadly, I live in a city where solicitors can't read Rorey 1 hr ago #83
I don't open the door to any strangers. Way to dangerous TommieMommy 20 hrs ago #25
Another threat was covered by an AARP Bulletin story about a year ago. There allegorical oracle 19 hrs ago #27
Diabolical Joinfortmill 18 hrs ago #44
This message was self-deleted by its author LogDog75 19 hrs ago #28
Nope. Don't let any sales people in the door. You cannot get rid of them. Initech 19 hrs ago #29
Huge red flag xuplate 19 hrs ago #33
One way to stop them in their tracks is to ask for the city license/permit for sales LogDog75 19 hrs ago #34
Even better, don't open it in the first place. ananda 19 hrs ago #35
I just saw a video on SocialDemocrat61 19 hrs ago #36
OMG!!! FoxNewsSucks 11 hrs ago #68
Maybe she just shouldn't be home when they return. Or just shoo them away. LeftInTX 19 hrs ago #37
We're lucky in one regard. cab67 19 hrs ago #38
I never answer the door for unannounced visitors or the phone for unknown callers. GoodRaisin 18 hrs ago #40
I never answer a knock on my door JoseBalow 18 hrs ago #43
I love the first one! n/t ReRe 18 hrs ago #47
I have doorbell cameras. murielm99 18 hrs ago #45
i have a sign that says i charge $50 to listen to their pitch moonshinegnomie 18 hrs ago #46
I never ever open the door, they can ring the bell and knock on Raine 18 hrs ago #49
Growing up Faux pas 17 hrs ago #53
I never answer the door nor the phone unless I know who it is. hamsterjill 17 hrs ago #54
"Potential" doorbells (satire!) usonian 17 hrs ago #56
Better yet Rebl2 16 hrs ago #57
Captain Beefheart sold door-to-door orthoclad 16 hrs ago #58
I had a phone salesman call me (right at dinnertime!).... lastlib 15 hrs ago #60
this is obviously the aggressive "believe in your product" salesmanship rampartd 15 hrs ago #62
I put something like this above my door bell Monsieur_Grumpe 15 hrs ago #63
In our town, door-to-door sales people have to register with the police first. Otherwise, they can be arrested. Wonder Why 13 hrs ago #67
we get rogers salespeople here constantly...i won't do business with them because i caught them doing something dawn5651 10 hrs ago #69
Pella windows are excellent radical noodle 10 hrs ago #70
Are you young newlyweds? Bread and Circuses 5 hrs ago #76
I feel sorry for the door knockers. Aussie105 5 hrs ago #77
Yes! Ask for a business card. Tell them directly::: No card equals SCAM. Norrrm 5 hrs ago #78
We usually open the door DFW 4 hrs ago #80
As the expression goes: How can you tell when a salesperson is lying? Orrex 3 hrs ago #81
This is a sad thread, but not unexpected. Ron Green 17 min ago #86
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