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hrmjustin

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3. I am so sorry to hear this.

Sat Jan 12, 2013, 08:34 PM

Jan 2013

I understand your feelings completely. All I can say is do you guys really have to visit these people. Maybe she told you so that you will tell her it is ok not to go visit these people. I am so sorry for you guys that this happened to her.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] backwoodsbob Jan 2013 OP

Lets back up a minute... stevenleser Jan 2013 #1

You have a good point. However, the OP should not control what his wife chooses to do. Democratopia Jan 2013 #4

Where did I suggest control? I dont have enough information to even suggest it. I dont know, for stevenleser Jan 2013 #27

You didn't suggest control ....sometimes folks read what they "feel" .... FarPoint Jan 2013 #41

You said "Cancel the trip. Period." Sorry, but that would be trying to stop his wife going Democratopia Jan 2013 #53

her parents are near death backwoodsbob Jan 2013 #6

Then I agree with posters down thread. Do not stay in the same house. And do not drink alcohol. nt stevenleser Jan 2013 #35

Exactly right. DO NOT GO! nt brush Jan 2013 #47

Gee that is terrible. How long ago did this happen? Democratopia Jan 2013 #2

I am so sorry to hear this. hrmjustin Jan 2013 #3

why in the world is your wife taking you to visit her rapists????????????????? nt Takket Jan 2013 #5

+1000 !!!! orpupilofnature57 Jan 2013 #13

Christ!...you're a better man than I am. I could not go...could not go.. to see them. BlueJazz Jan 2013 #7

you have no idea backwoodsbob Jan 2013 #17

Both of you need to stay in a hotel/motel, whatever. darkangel218 Jan 2013 #22

Alcohol would NOT be my recommendation. n/t FourScore Jan 2013 #25

^^This!^^ n/t LeftofObama Jan 2013 #32

I wouldnt go, if i was you. darkangel218 Jan 2013 #8

Yes, but if you were in that situation, wouldn't you want to be there so you could protect your wife Democratopia Jan 2013 #12

When i said i wouldnt go, i was refering to both of them! darkangel218 Jan 2013 #19

Well, it isn't right that he should control who his wife can see. Whatever they did, however bad it Democratopia Jan 2013 #34

Im not teling them not to go, i said I wouldnt, if it was ME. darkangel218 Jan 2013 #51

AWKWARD! No, seriously? You'd best discuss this trip further. WinkyDink Jan 2013 #9

I can't answer your question, so why would you go ? orpupilofnature57 Jan 2013 #10

she is strong backwoodsbob Jan 2013 #36

OMG I'm so sorry. tridim Jan 2013 #11

Your wife forgives them? RobertEarl Jan 2013 #14

If you still go, i would rent a hotel room, and only visit during the day darkangel218 Jan 2013 #15

Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #16

WTF? stevenleser Jan 2013 #29

This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Jan 2013 #44

Whaaa? Every woman ?? What planet or Century are you from ??? orpupilofnature57 Jan 2013 #31

Every?? Most??? You know ONE Case - it is not the norm karynnj Jan 2013 #40

I was wondering if my eyes were failing me because no one else seemed to be responding to that. stevenleser Jan 2013 #42

All of my sympathy and support to your wife and you. MarianJack Jan 2013 #18

If your wife has relatives she feels she must yellerpup Jan 2013 #20

Your wife needs your support if you do go graywarrior Jan 2013 #21

That trip is poison NoOneMan Jan 2013 #23

That is terribly unfortunate dballance Jan 2013 #24

+1. darkangel218 Jan 2013 #26

I tend to question the veracity of anything coming from Son of Gob Jan 2013 #28

LOL that was him? leftstreet Jan 2013 #38

Good eye !!! I thought something Stunk in Denmark orpupilofnature57 Jan 2013 #43

I'm surprised that I had to read so far downthread before someone made the connection. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2013 #49

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Stay in a motel. Warpy Jan 2013 #30

Oh my :(....Don't go.... SummerSnow Jan 2013 #33

Killing them is not a good idea. avebury Jan 2013 #37

Just remember your Ma's words. Jack Sprat Jan 2013 #39

Get a life Troll . orpupilofnature57 Jan 2013 #45

Don't drink in their presence, it will lower your arthritisR_US Jan 2013 #46

Hope they fair better than the dog. morningfog Jan 2013 #48

Fa la la la laaaa tavernier Jan 2013 #52