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mythology

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15. When I was 17
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 08:16 PM
Mar 2013

I realized that I couldn't allow my biological dad to remain in my life because his constant verbal and emotional abuse was destroying me inside.

When I was 16 I was on a school trip in a foreign country. One of the girls on the trip got utterly drunk and passed out in what turned out to be my room. Apparently in her drunken stupor she got confused. Neither me or the other person who was actually supposed to be sleeping in the room with me did anything other than put her under the covers with her clothes on. We didn't rape her, we didn't take pictures of her, we didn't do anything like that. Granted I was a little annoyed that I wound up sleeping on the floor, but it didn't cross my mind that I should commit a violent felony simply because she wasn't capable enough to say no.

Unless there was some sort of compelling evidence that these kids were incapable of understanding right from wrong, then I've got no problem with them having to register as sex offenders. Especially given that one of these poor excuses for a human being lamented that they shouldn't have taken pictures, not that they shouldn't have committed the act, I don't see a lot of remorse.

Now if it were a case of an 18 year old sleeping with his/her 17 year old partner (or whatever the legal age difference is in Ohio), then I'd say that the label either shouldn't be applied or should be able to be removed.

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They got off easy... Kalidurga Mar 2013 #1
Sex Offender onpatrol98 Mar 2013 #2
That is it in a nutshell mercuryblues Mar 2013 #9
I think it helps to remember that several others the same age spooky3 Mar 2013 #3
I think it depends on the individual case, but the older they are, the more likely they should uppityperson Mar 2013 #4
You know . . . . I am always big on forgiveness, at least in concept. But . . . Stinky The Clown Mar 2013 #11
Yes, they should carry that designation forever. I think they should have been tried as adults. forestpath Mar 2013 #5
they should carry it forever , and they got off easy JI7 Mar 2013 #6
I'm more inclined to care about the life and future of the real victim. (nt) Posteritatis Mar 2013 #7
I wonder...were they old enough to know that they wouldn't want someone to do the same to them? phylny Mar 2013 #8
Yes, IMO they should be registered sex offenders for their entire lives. redqueen Mar 2013 #10
Question is whether we think they can be rehabilited DirkGently Mar 2013 #12
You're asking good questions . . . Stinky The Clown Mar 2013 #13
It is my understanding Why Syzygy Mar 2013 #14
I heard that today, too. femmocrat Mar 2013 #20
When I was 17 mythology Mar 2013 #15
Following the apparent logic of your comments, it seems you do favor some route to redemption.... Stinky The Clown Mar 2013 #16
Maybe when they're 45 or so, depending on good behavior. geek tragedy Mar 2013 #17
I thought the judge does a review at 18 and decides on sex offender listing snooper2 Mar 2013 #18
Near as I can tell sir pball Mar 2013 #21
I want all future women that they date/marry to know that the boys are sex offenders. LittleBlue Mar 2013 #19
I think they should be punished, but also taught and evaluated and guided and yes, rehabilitated. nolabear Mar 2013 #22
They are fucking sociopaths. The registry is not to punish them, it's to protect us. Evoman Mar 2013 #23
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