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Bennyboy

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8. What I listed above is only part of it...

Wed Mar 20, 2013, 11:42 PM

Mar 2013

Squeamish Carcinoma on right leg and evidence of another one on my face. Carpal tunnel so bad that it make me cry.

And then there is the fact that I am a caregiver for my Mom whom I dislike immensely. (Due to my Father using me as cheap and in a lot of cases free labor, settting tile. I started doing Man's work when i was ten years old and My Mom did nothing about that or the bazillion other things my Dad did to me) been at it for five years and I am at the very end of that right now with no relief (Tonight is my trivia night and obviously I am NOT at trivia).. Now I cannot do anything and thanks to her not dealing with a form on time< I get no money and have had NOT ONE DIME SINCE January. I am at least another month from being paid and my car is about to die.

I didn't start this thread to be a woe is me thing but I am at the very end of it right now and have no idea how to deal with anything. because i am on the payroll (despite the SNAFU) I ahve to pay out of pocket for any and all medical care even though I only make 500 dollars a month. I just went through that withe a stuck Q Tip that cost me 11 hundred dollars.

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Tile Setting Hurts like hell [View all] Bennyboy Mar 2013 OP

That is an AWFUL job. Auntie Bush Mar 2013 #1

I'll never make it to 62... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #2

If you are a veteran the VA will pull the teeth... AnotherDreamWeaver Mar 2013 #4

Please don't give up. Get help. Please spooky3 Mar 2013 #6

What I listed above is only part of it... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #8

Would you qualify for Medicaid? And food stamps? If not, can you Google for cheap clinic Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #15

Nope do not qualify Bennyboy Mar 2013 #48

Find out if there's a local community health clinic near you. Aristus Mar 2013 #10

Not here sadly... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #13

You live in Sacramento? I did a search for you and found a lot of free & low cost clinics & dental: Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #19

Thanks for that..... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #55

You make about $6k a year? Can you qualify for Medicaid? nt Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #106

Eventually... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #107

Honeycombe8, Sissyk Mar 2013 #60

Thanks! :) nt Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #105

And thanks again.. Bennyboy Mar 2013 #108

Check our Honeycombe's list - one of them should be able to help you kdmorris Mar 2013 #45

kdmorris, Sissyk Mar 2013 #62

I'll take tile setting all day long over roofing... snooper2 Mar 2013 #71

I've done two of those Bennyboy Mar 2013 #79

Tiling, masonry, and roofing- three jobs I could never do again. X_Digger Mar 2013 #3

When I was in high school, we toured a pork packing plant. progressoid Mar 2013 #5

meatpacking was one of the first trades hit under reagan. went from being a hard job with HiPointDem Mar 2013 #92

And you aren't getting hundreds or even thousands a day to do it. stevenleser Mar 2013 #7

And again I state: Those that would raise the retirement age never seem to do this type of work. Marie Marie Mar 2013 #9

There should be different retirement ages for different types of work. reformist2 Mar 2013 #11

Exactly!!!! No way the retirement age should be raised, esp for manual laborers! nt Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #16

Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #12

Your story is heartbreaking... Kalidurga Mar 2013 #14

I think that's why in the 1800s it was common to have an alcoholic drink for breakfast, Trillo Mar 2013 #17

My dad worked from age 14 to 65 Boudica the Lyoness Mar 2013 #18

. redqueen Mar 2013 #20

I've been waiting for you. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #21

... Apophis Mar 2013 #22

The dude just threatened suicide. Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #25

Imagine how much worse his pain would be if posters were saying mean things about his religion Fumesucker Mar 2013 #27

Suicide threats trump everything. Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #31

Sarcastic subject line mocking another thread, his second inside a week... redqueen Mar 2013 #32

I take all suicide threats seriously. Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #36

The stuff I wrote in my previous post was meant to explain why I missed the threat entirely. redqueen Mar 2013 #38

He mocked! He mocked! Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #54

Wow. HappyMe Mar 2013 #35

vile datasuspect Mar 2013 #37

damn jollyreaper2112 Mar 2013 #69

Someone alerted on your post. Jury voted to LEAVE IT, 5-1: Poll_Blind Mar 2013 #73

That made me laugh pintobean Mar 2013 #75

typical jollyreaper2112 Mar 2013 #83

HAHA! Sissyk Mar 2013 #87

Calling someone a "thing" is indeed a personal attack. sufrommich Mar 2013 #91

Don't you know? Apophis Mar 2013 #23

Pornography is actually very physically demanding. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #24

The problem is nobody will pay for ordinary sex or nudity, we are awash in free porn. bemildred Mar 2013 #42

Interesting analysis, especially since I think television right now is producing some amazing stuff. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #46

The only thing you are not allowed to see on TV is sexual orifices in action. bemildred Mar 2013 #51

So the problem is that we're "allowed" to see too much stuff on TV? Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #53

Interesting to you maybe. bemildred Mar 2013 #100

And I'd say, if all you see about the landscape of television is what you've described, here Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #101

The basic problem here is that you want to defend TV and I'm not interested enough to attack it. bemildred Mar 2013 #102

Dead on LittleBlue Mar 2013 #64

I'm tired of people right now, and this thread is just one more reason why. PDJane Mar 2013 #26

Godspeed, Bennyboy Fumesucker Mar 2013 #28

Just tiling the woodstove surround Warpy Mar 2013 #29

Yep Yo_Mama Mar 2013 #93

i have chronic shoulder pain noiretextatique Mar 2013 #97

A lot of people read that porn article and missed the part where she said the work had its pluses. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #30

Yeah, I have a cousin who did that for about thirty years. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #33

Yet some banker sitting in a leather chair thinks working until age 70 and beyond is fine for you. Scuba Mar 2013 #34

I know how you feel RockaFowler Mar 2013 #39

Yessir... 99Forever Mar 2013 #40

Well said. Work sucks, and the less it pays, the more it sucks. nt bemildred Mar 2013 #41

I can't imagine doing that for a living! kdmorris Mar 2013 #43

If you work in porn, you are only slightly more likely to get screwed than in other jobs Orrex Mar 2013 #44

This explains why I have considered you a tough, no-nonsense sort of guy siligut Mar 2013 #47

Thanks. That's me.... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #49

I really wish there was some way HappyMe Mar 2013 #52

The one by your eye should be a snap siligut Mar 2013 #59

So you don't have Medi-cal? siligut Mar 2013 #66

First you must qualify for CMISP Bennyboy Mar 2013 #78

Hey Benny. Let me reiterate what everyone else has said. Hang in there, brother. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #50

... did that in the kitchen and bath here a couple of weeks ago. It's an incredibly hard RKP5637 Mar 2013 #56

hubby refuses to do it anymore. ceile Mar 2013 #57

k&r for the truth. Excellent post. n/t Laelth Mar 2013 #58

And a big old thanks to you all (except for a couple anyways) Bennyboy Mar 2013 #61

Really you only started this thread to slam porn workers? MattBaggins Mar 2013 #76

No that is not it at all..... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #82

I really like tile setting, frankly. Coyotl Mar 2013 #63

I've done all that.... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #67

The uninitiated have no clue, Benny. 99Forever Mar 2013 #90

And the life-long pros in construction know very well what the truth is Coyotl Mar 2013 #98

I spent two years driving and moving for North American / Mayflower 4_TN_TITANS Mar 2013 #65

Does your job have worker protections? FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #68

tHERE IS A FEEE FOR EVERY RIDE YOU HOP ON..... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #70

And worker protections have improved since then as a result of their suffering. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #72

HA HA HA. You are so freaking wrong it is not funny.... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #77

We're not talking about individuals or employees choosing to work outside of regulations FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #85

You are reading to much into this... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #86

I believed the article, which you are clearly responding to here, WAS about the need for regulation FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #88

Porn does have regulations...... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #89

Those are for the state of California. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #94

As long as "porn" is taken to include every time 2 consenting adults decide to have sex in front of Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #103

I here ya backwoodsbob Mar 2013 #74

Pron is a strange beast...why is prostitution illegal Rex Mar 2013 #80

Yeah I never got the distinction either.... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #84

Porn is considered "art", as a category of "film" jeff47 Mar 2013 #104

That is just crazy since people make movies to make money Rex Mar 2013 #109

Bennyboy Kali Mar 2013 #81

Pay now or later just us Mar 2013 #95

That is probably where you get your compassion and understanding from. NCTraveler Mar 2013 #96

Boyfriend did tile setting years ago LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #99