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61. I don't want to be seen as defending the person that sent the PM, but the PM can be

Reply to undergroundpanther (Original post)

Thu Apr 4, 2013, 07:13 PM

Apr 2013

interpreted several ways.

The poster could be a frequenter of women that need to sell sex to live either for economic reasons or because they are addicted to drugs. In that vein, by having sex with those women, the person was not having sex with a person that gave true consent.

The second possibility is that the person took advantage of emotionally needy women when he found them. Those women would have given consent, but how valid is consent given under the duress of emotional need?

The person could have bedded many women while in college, using his looks to lure them. I had an attractive and suave roommate in college who did just that. They women gave consent, but they were dumped when the asshole became bored with them.

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I just got this PM from another DU'er [View all] undergroundpanther Apr 2013 OP

This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Apr 2013 #1

I want to rat him out undergroundpanther Apr 2013 #27

If you rat him out and get banned, I am out of here. Without a moment's hesitation. Squinch Apr 2013 #32

talkingmime has been banned. Ptah Apr 2013 #38

This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Apr 2013 #39

I think that was a multi accounter rather than a returnee. Whisp Apr 2013 #69

Just as a general point of clarification, DU3 is all about transparency. MADem Apr 2013 #72

Report this, please. ismnotwasm Apr 2013 #2

well, that's some crazy shit. cali Apr 2013 #3

I would suggest reporting it to the admins. antigone382 Apr 2013 #4

I would have immediately made it public DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2013 #5

Yikes. Report this to the Admins!!! LeftishBrit Apr 2013 #6

I sent an alert but I'm nopt sure I did it right. undergroundpanther Apr 2013 #29

It worked BainsBane Apr 2013 #41

Please forward that to David and Earl Marrah_G Apr 2013 #7

+1 Squinch Apr 2013 #16

I'm not even sure what that twisted shit even means arcane1 Apr 2013 #8

That sick **** needs to be banned! n/t L0oniX Apr 2013 #9

It was sent specifically TO trigger you, and repeat his act once again. Report it ASAP. Squinch Apr 2013 #10

Precisely DollarBillHines Apr 2013 #25

Wtf! Sorry you received this. How disturbing. Glimmer of Hope Apr 2013 #11

That's fucking sick! Dpm12 Apr 2013 #12

what was their DU name ? JI7 Apr 2013 #13

thats.. AsahinaKimi Apr 2013 #14

Jesus Aerows Apr 2013 #15

omg October Apr 2013 #17

I dunno.. undergroundpanther Apr 2013 #35

DU should have an alert feature for PM's. Old and In the Way Apr 2013 #18

I think there is Marrah_G Apr 2013 #19

There is, at the bottom of the PM/DM there is a option to alert admin maddezmom Apr 2013 #26

They do--you can alert on a PM. MADem Apr 2013 #60

I hope to god this has been taken care of by the admins! etherealtruth Apr 2013 #20

That's disturbing. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2013 #21

Sick! Cali_Democrat Apr 2013 #22

I would report it, even if it is not likely to lead to that poster's banning. It's worth a shot. Jamastiene Apr 2013 #23

Out him. pintobean Apr 2013 #24

Exactly n/t Aerows Apr 2013 #28

talkingmime DURHAM D Apr 2013 #37

That's who I thought it might be pintobean Apr 2013 #45

To add to the insult... DURHAM D Apr 2013 #47

I shuttered pintobean Apr 2013 #53

Me too. DURHAM D Apr 2013 #56

confession: I feel foolish for having voted not to hide his thread DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2013 #70

Tell the admins, that shit don't fly. Rex Apr 2013 #30

talkingmime has been removed Ptah Apr 2013 #31

thank you. undergroundpanther Apr 2013 #40

Good! Solly Mack Apr 2013 #43

this shit is scary undergroundpanther Apr 2013 #51

He wanted to scare you, I think. He wanted power over you. Solly Mack Apr 2013 #54

+1 pintobean Apr 2013 #55

Bully alert. It was looking to cause disgust and potentially fear from you. haele Apr 2013 #33

I hope the PM has been alerted on. Solly Mack Apr 2013 #34

The good new is Skinner has banned the person maddezmom Apr 2013 #42

I'm glad he's been banned. Hope he stays away. Solly Mack Apr 2013 #44

This message was self-deleted by its author Kali Apr 2013 #52

I'm also happy to see him gone. greatauntoftriplets Apr 2013 #59

WTF? zappaman Apr 2013 #36

That was like MSNBC Lockup. UnrepentantLiberal Apr 2013 #46

Alert it to Admins... SidDithers Apr 2013 #48

The big question to me is why did you post it to us madokie Apr 2013 #49

Why do you ask? DURHAM D Apr 2013 #50

Why is that the big question for you? Squinch Apr 2013 #57

That's about as insensitive as it gets. pintobean Apr 2013 #62

What a sick pervert. You did the right thing to report him. You did everyone a favor. southernyankeebelle Apr 2013 #58

I don't want to be seen as defending the person that sent the PM, but the PM can be bluestate10 Apr 2013 #61

No. There's no charitable explanation DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2013 #63

Have you read that posters previous posts?? darkangel218 Apr 2013 #64

I see you have reported him and he was banned. 99Forever Apr 2013 #65

I am so glad they were banned, under! Sissyk Apr 2013 #66

Is it someone you know? Whisp Apr 2013 #67

damn JitterbugPerfume Apr 2013 #68

That is fucked up. Glad it was banned. City Lights Apr 2013 #71

undergroundpanther, Skinner has banned the troll and the situation is resloved. Locking this now. Lone_Star_Dem Apr 2013 #73