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In reply to the discussion: Victim-blaming and woman-shaming claim another victim [View all]IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)175. The RAPE VICTIM was *NOT* a SLUT - so "slut shaming" is NOT the point.
She was *CALLED* a slut to minimize the fact she was a RAPE VICTIM.
While you may want to change the meaning of the English language by saying "sluts don't exist", the word has a long history of use.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/slut?s=t&path=/
SLUT noun
1. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
2. Obsolete . a dirty, slovenly woman.
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Origin:
13751425; late Middle English slutte; compare dial. slut mud, Norwegian (dial.) slutr sleet, impure liquid
Word story
Slut first appeared in the written language in 1402, according to the Oxford English Dictionary , that great repository of language information. At that time, slut meant roughly what one sense of slattern means today: a slovenly, untidy woman or girl. It also apparently meant kitchen maid (She is a cheerful slut who keeps the pots scrubbed and the fires hot.). By the end of the 15th century the sense a woman given to immoral or improper conduct had come into use, and it is the only meaning in use today. Interestingly, the same second meaning, a promiscuous woman, developed for the term slattern.
In common usage, a "SLUT" is someone whose CONSENSUAL immoral and improper actions usually involve non-community acceptable sexual activity; in this case, the victim was assaulted by "RAPISTS" (by definition non-consensual), and is therefore NOT a "SLUT" which false accusation undoubtedly contributed to her mental distress.
By accusing the VICTIM of being an immoral person or of having conducted herself improperly, the RAPISTS attempted to distract from the fact they are IMMORAL PEOPLE WHO COMMIT IMPROPER ACTIVITIES. This technique in psychology is called a "PROJECTION" and is specifically a "DEFENSE MECHANISM":
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
Psychological projection was first conceptualized by Sigmund Freud as a defense mechanism in which a person unconsciously rejects his or her own unacceptable attributes by ascribing them to objects or persons in the outside world instead. Thus, projection involves projecting positive or negative qualities onto others, and is a common psychological process. Theoretically, projection and the related projective identification reduces anxiety by allowing the expression of the unwanted unconscious impulses or desires while the conscious mind is aware.
The theory was originally developed by Freud in his letters to Wilhelm Fliess - '"Draft H" deals with projection as a mechanism of defense' and further refined by his daughter Anna Freud; it is sometimes referred to as Freudian projection.[4]
I am horrified by this story. I do not believe that "slut shaming" is the worst thing that happened because I believe a 15 year old girl being raped, publicly shamed, and her attackers celebrated instead of shot/jailed is the real problem, eventually being the motivation for her taking her own life is the Real Tragedy.
There is no excuse for this. NONE!
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apparently this guy is in deep s*** for some remarks he made a few months ago in
niyad
Apr 2013
#127
I'm relieved local news is handling this one a bit better so far, at least
Posteritatis
Apr 2013
#206
They know. They also know they can get away with it. Education won't do it.
TheMadMonk
Apr 2013
#156
looking at the hidden post and yours, one notices that they seem to be identical.
niyad
Apr 2013
#119
Sure, your male friend's define themselves as a s**ts sbecause they are proud
Luminous Animal
Apr 2013
#161
you think this is FUNNY? did it occur to you that some of us will refuse to use a word that is
niyad
Apr 2013
#6
it is spelled out in the article, people often don't spell out things like the N word, F word
JI7
Apr 2013
#9
I'm not in the business of telling people what to think. Because it pisses me off when others
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#44
Just a tad bit of compassion for the victim of a gang rape would be a respectable reaction.
Jamastiene
Apr 2013
#41
If an earlier post gets nuked it can look like the person's still posting.
Posteritatis
Apr 2013
#106
I'm sure she is physically capbable of typing it out but she prefers not to.
Luminous Animal
Apr 2013
#55
this gang rape was a "first world problem" and we're just SJWs typing about it all......
bettyellen
Apr 2013
#78
Because as people keep telling us, revealing pictures of girls and women are going to be shared
redqueen
Apr 2013
#7
should be mandatory for schools to report to the local police. colleges sure don't.
bettyellen
Apr 2013
#75
And every. Single. Fucking. Time. People pile on to blame the victim. It's infuriating. (nt)
Posteritatis
Apr 2013
#27
They want to believe it can't happen to them. Or to the women in their lives, if they're male.
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#30
I find it telling that a lot of local news sites disabled comments on articles about this. (nt)
Posteritatis
Apr 2013
#52
"...and anything touching on bullying or most forms of rape draw them like flies..."
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#95
My response: "Yeah, all that bullying turned you into a fine human being. I can really tell."
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#111
I think of it almost like separating the "wheat" from the "chaff." The "worthy" from the "unworthy."
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#60
And then think of all the kids prosecuted for consensual (albeit underage) "sexting."
nomorenomore08
Apr 2013
#54
Her high school - the second one she went to try to get away from this - is right next to my house.
Posteritatis
Apr 2013
#20
Posteritatis, since you're from the area, I as a lifelong American have some Q's.
alp227
Apr 2013
#151
and absolutely nothing will happen--read what the nova scotia justice minister said (reply #1)
niyad
Apr 2013
#94
All those euphemisms only mean one thing. 'Boys will be boys. Think of their careers!'
freshwest
Apr 2013
#96
tears baby. i am just in tears. i wish... so wish, there were people to stand up for you, loudly.
seabeyond
Apr 2013
#123
Why do you think her rapists took a picture and shared it? Because they thought she'd be pleased?
redqueen
Apr 2013
#178
Your inability to comprehend the English language is bordering on frothing hysteria.
IdaBriggs
Apr 2013
#185
Did I act like the world is going to end? I would like more solidarity among women.
redqueen
Apr 2013
#189
i tried to find the article of a 12 yr old that committed suicide for being called a slut, and she
seabeyond
Apr 2013
#207
Because those are the terms people are using to describe what happened to this girl.
redqueen
Apr 2013
#210
The all pervasive objectification and sexualization of girls/women is primary to creating
Zorra
Apr 2013
#195
Ugh! This makes me physically ill. I am sick to my stomach after reading this.
smirkymonkey
Apr 2013
#222