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In reply to the discussion: We all know men who think they deserve to own women: This is a horrifying exaggeration of that. [View all]wickerwoman
(5,662 posts)and think your post was unfairly hidden.
It's not, as you say, all men who say they want Asian wives but it's a hell of a lot. I met and worked with a huge cross-section of Asian-wife hunters when I lived in China and 90% misogynists is a conservative estimate.
Ask them why they want Asian wives and the answer is almost always "because they're more feminine". Ask them what they mean by "more feminine" and they either mean 1. smaller, frailer, wear more make up, wear skimpy clothes or 2. serve me dinner, do all the housework, massage my feet or 3. are giggly and helpless and make me feel like a big man by letting me pay for dinner and hold open doors.
And it's racist to begin with to say "I want an Asian wife and would never consider any other type of woman". How would we respond to a woman who said "I only want to date black men because they're more masculine"? It wouldn't be by assuming any man who was offended by that statement was "just jealous" or a "fat unfuckable hag".