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In reply to the discussion: We all know men who think they deserve to own women: This is a horrifying exaggeration of that. [View all]allGoodThings
(31 posts)and it makes them feel better than just saying that they can't deal with women as equals and need to be in a controlling position.
And I am not talking about any guy who marries a foreign women. I am talking specifically about those who seek out "mail order brides". And of course, not 100% of them either - but the majority that I have come across.
It has little to do with foreign women being different - it has to do with women in a vulnerable position. If they come here and get married - that marriage is the only thing allowing them to remain here. The husband doesn't have that constraint - that puts him in a great position of power over the woman.
So of course these women are going to go out of their way to keep their husband happy by (1) staying in shape, (2) not upsetting him about money issues, (3) seeking the same 'family values' as their husband, and (5) taking marriage more seriously.
And any man who refers to his car as a "chick magnet" is definitely telling you a lot about what he thinks of women.
And I understand that you are just the messenger here - so no need to think these thoughts are directed to you - they are directed to the message.