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In reply to the discussion: Cleveland kidnapping: The women were kept bound with chains and ropes [View all]Edit history
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Welcome to DU but how do we know this is for real, the money will get to him?
uppityperson
May 2013
#8
Excellent advice and indeed, he doesn't want money. Give directly to an established place
uppityperson
May 2013
#46
Thanks for the info, and good job with the removal. Could be real but........
uppityperson
May 2013
#54
This is certainly going to deflate the "blame the victims" (they could have left but didn't) people.
monmouth3
May 2013
#2
I saw an OP here yesterday questioning why these women "did not leave when they could have."...n/t
monmouth3
May 2013
#4
Ugh. Victims have a hard enough time with that when they *aren't* physically restrained.
Posteritatis
May 2013
#75
Right here on DU. "Why didn't they try to escape?" or "Why didn't they just leave?" or
kestrel91316
May 2013
#41
There are always, ALWAYS, people who go right there when these stories break.
Posteritatis
May 2013
#74
I in know way intend to blame the victims, as you say. But, I am definitely curious since
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#5
His brothers were not living with him. And up until several months ago, he had a job.
LisaL
May 2013
#10
No it doesn't. If they were literally chained up for 10 years you would think they would sound
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#12
Geez - it's amazing how people jump for just discussing the situation. Thiought it went without
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#69
As these details come out, it's like some people forget that they are cumulative.
Brickbat
May 2013
#15
I am not loving the categorization "blame the victim". It's really quite natural & non-accusatory
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#26
No, there is much more to it, than staying with someone in hopes they change.
boston bean
May 2013
#55
Oh that is wayyyy too simple "hold onto hope he will change" for DV survivors.
uppityperson
May 2013
#57
I agree there are differences, not arguing that. Simply trying to address a point you wrote about DV
uppityperson
May 2013
#82
wow, didn't expect such assholery from you. I would hardly compare a battered wife to a kidnapping
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#68
You wouldn't? Not one that was afraid to leave. To much of a leap for you to make? nt
boston bean
May 2013
#72
Bingo! And the corallary to this is that calling the criminals animals or worse,
hedgehog
May 2013
#27
"a call" - which are you referring to? the other day? or in the past?
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#34
thanks...hadn't heard that. Only that the police did respond once and no one
Laura PourMeADrink
May 2013
#39
The Cleveland Chief of Police was on the news this morning saying that they had no
toby jo
May 2013
#64