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laundry_queen

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50. People generally have an 'it can't happen to me' attitude.
Wed May 8, 2013, 10:06 PM
May 2013

As a parent of 4 kids, I cannot tell you the amount of times one of my kid's friends are allowed to do monumentally stupid things because their parents say things like "*my* kid knows better" or "I did that at her age and I'm fine". I know kids in this town who have died from various accidents because of stupid things their parents allowed to happen and still, people say shit like, "they gotta learn some time, sooner is better than later!" Or even worse, they make excuses about why the parents of the deceased child are so dumb and how such an accident could NEVER happen to THEM or their 'above average' child. People absolutely love to live in denial. I think there is a large amount of selfishness with these kinds of parents - they don't want to go out of their way for their kids, they are unwilling to change their own lifestyles to make their home a safe place for their kids, so they make excuses about why it's GOOD their kids do these things. It's really insane. Parents that you think are GREAT parents and awesome people sometimes do really stupid things and justify it in their own minds because it's too much work for them to put time and effort into changing for their children.

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I was going to say "a toaster" but this is even worse (nt) Nye Bevan May 2013 #1
Toasters in the bathtub aren't too bad these days Major Nikon May 2013 #43
Mythbusters did that one years ago Warpy May 2013 #77
"It was just a horrible accident." baldguy May 2013 #2
Same sad story... 99Forever May 2013 #3
A ___ aged ____ found a ____ caliber gun and shot his ___ y.o. _____. Dash87 May 2013 #4
Yep. Just full in the blanks. Arkansas Granny May 2013 #5
in the ______. The victim is expected to _________. BlueStreak May 2013 #34
It's almost as if the media is trying to desensitize us to this. Initech May 2013 #46
From the Wayne LaPierre conspiracy files. Dash87 May 2013 #63
Damn. How many stories like this in the last few weeks? Fix The Stupid May 2013 #6
You don't get it because there's an error in your post jeff47 May 2013 #13
The last two decades of gun culture is a huge factor as well. ieoeja May 2013 #21
Exactly. This has changed remarkably even since "Bowling with Columbine" BlueStreak May 2013 #35
Great post. Explains a great deal about what's happened and what's different now. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #49
Wow. You're not kidding. Fix The Stupid May 2013 #29
Gun ownership per capita has gone down Warpy May 2013 #78
Here we go again, trot out your talking points NRA. nt sheshe2 May 2013 #7
If only the seven year old had been armed. Orrex May 2013 #8
Yep, the seven year old in the tub, shoulda had his spear gun with him. RC May 2013 #60
My 7 year old still needs Jennicut May 2013 #81
Where were the parents when all this was happening? PADemD May 2013 #9
Even more unbelievable is where are they today? BlueStreak May 2013 #36
Talking points #1 secure firearms. ileus May 2013 #10
Free trigger locks are worth every penny. Robb May 2013 #12
Taurus builds a disabling locking mechanism into every gun they make now krispos42 May 2013 #17
Thanks for the feature billh58 May 2013 #20
Got it in one. Iggo May 2013 #11
good grief if these people have a precious right to bear arms and have them treestar May 2013 #14
Well the kids were in the bathtub which hold water like a swimming pool.. mountain grammy May 2013 #15
Question: krispos42 May 2013 #16
There's the NRA billh58 May 2013 #19
So it's not a valid question? krispos42 May 2013 #23
Is there a specific and objective number of reports that reduces reporting news to "corporate-media LanternWaste May 2013 #26
My premise... krispos42 May 2013 #52
Media are reporting abelenkpe May 2013 #56
Then it's media reporting that's changed, yes? krispos42 May 2013 #59
Gun deaths are holding steady abelenkpe May 2013 #61
Or, we can ban pistol grips from rifles krispos42 May 2013 #62
That graph you just posted shows that is exactly what happened. ieoeja May 2013 #79
I had an interesting conversation with my neighbor about this. krispos42 May 2013 #83
Nice try, but billh58 May 2013 #27
See my reply #52. krispos42 May 2013 #53
That's rich billh58 May 2013 #70
Maybe they are simply highlighting such events more then they have in the past? jmg257 May 2013 #31
That's my point krispos42 May 2013 #54
You've just spouted billh58 May 2013 #68
"You people" krispos42 May 2013 #82
Spoken like the billh58 May 2013 #84
Kids shooting each other is a supervision problem The Straight Story May 2013 #30
There's that NRA billh58 May 2013 #32
So basically you are saying The Straight Story May 2013 #33
Typical NRA rebuttal billh58 May 2013 #42
Oh nice.... The Straight Story May 2013 #45
"A good dialog?" billh58 May 2013 #48
And the idea of such here is The Straight Story May 2013 #57
You said you were a big shot on Free Republic. Did they Robb May 2013 #58
Ah, as usual, attack the person and not the post in hopes of 'winning' The Straight Story May 2013 #71
Speaking of deflection, I noticed you didn't answer. Robb May 2013 #72
Could you, perhaps, and I know this is real hard for you The Straight Story May 2013 #75
The Klan's "Southern BBQ Recipes" book doubtless had a few gems in it. Robb May 2013 #80
These "99%" of gun billh58 May 2013 #69
So you call me 'bubba'? The Straight Story May 2013 #73
When you use billh58 May 2013 #74
Here's an idea for you (and I know it's hard for you) The Straight Story May 2013 #76
When all you spout billh58 May 2013 #85
Ah, and another of their favorite terms, "that pesky Second Amendment." CTyankee May 2013 #44
NRA TP number one. This childs death is statistically insignificant. MattBaggins May 2013 #18
And "media frenzy" and "child supervision problem". Warren Stupidity May 2013 #66
Kids mean nothing to gun enthusiasts compared to their precious guns. stevenleser May 2013 #22
Are these parents not watching the news?! apples and oranges May 2013 #24
People generally have an 'it can't happen to me' attitude. laundry_queen May 2013 #50
so a five year old just gets out of the tub and "finds" a loaded .22 rifle? 0rganism May 2013 #25
Yup, that was my guess. nt Deep13 May 2013 #28
Was it because I mentioned "5 year old"? Robb May 2013 #37
Yup. Deep13 May 2013 #38
I know this one!! PIRAHNA! nt Demo_Chris May 2013 #39
I think a fucking toaster oven would have made a dandy bath toy for a 5 year old Dick Cheney. 11 Bravo May 2013 #40
+1 Blue_Tires May 2013 #41
You know what they say: good people die young and assholes live forever. Initech May 2013 #47
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2013 #51
Why the hell wasn't the 7 yo properly armed??? kestrel91316 May 2013 #55
What's sad is gun was the first thing I thought of. Apophis May 2013 #64
We could stop this with mandatory gun safety training in pre-school. bluedigger May 2013 #65
Ha! In_The_Wind May 2013 #67
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